whichwayisup53

About Me

Married for over 11 years.Husband decided June 28/08 he wanted out, supposedly he was not as happy. Loved me, but not "in" love with me anymore blah, blah, blah. I'd also found out he'd been talking on the phone with OW for a few months.He told me they were just friends...but the card I saw in his car from her told me there was a "whole lot" more going on than just friendship. But I guess he figured it was a good enough excuse to tell me he just wasn't happy and wanted to start a new life. Didn't want to try and fix things.Didn't want to go to counseling. Never told me anything until he'd made up his mind he was leaving. Haven't seen him since July 22/08, I'm just trying to get through the divorce.I was served with divorce papers the day after my wedding anniversary date. I signed my divorce papers Oct. 10/08. I'm by myself, my family all live thousands of miles away. Right now I'm just in the survival mode. I'm having to move on, not as fast as I'd like but will eventually get to my comfort zone. I think when time has completed my healing I will realize he did me a huge favor.

Married for over 11 years.Husband decided June 28/08 he wanted out, supposedly he was not as happy. Loved me, but not "in" love with me anymore blah, blah, blah. I'd also found out he'd been talking on the phone with OW for a few months.He told me they were just friends...but the card I saw in his car from her told me there was a "whole lot" more going on than just friendship. But I guess he figured it was a good enough excuse to tell me he just wasn't happy and wanted to start a new life. Didn't