Its been awhile....
March 20, 2009 7:37am
About a year ago I wrote a post on Facebook after my last relationship ended online. Thats right, he dumped me online and I was mad so I do what …
Goal Completed on Oct 20, 08
buttterly
11:18am, October 2, 2008
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About Me
buttterly
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About Me
I came on here awhile back dealing with heartache and love addiction and today I am so proud and happy to be apart of this website. I have been meeting great friends and getting wonderful advice and well wishes. I love to write in my journal and see how far along I have come. I am smiling more and crying less and I owe it all to this site.
I came on here awhile back dealing with heartache and love addiction and today I am so proud and happy to be apart of this website. I have been meeting great friends and getting wonderful advice and well wishes. I love to write in my journal and see how far along I have come. I am smiling more and crying less and I owe it all to this site.
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Interests
writing, boxing, shopping, cooking
writing, boxing, shopping, cooking
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Journal
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its october and im reflecting on things
October 20, 2008 8:55am
Its been two months since ive known my boyfriend and its been quite interesting and im loving it. Hes my best friend and each new day it gets better …
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new day and still smiling
October 14, 2008 9:07am
Im still with my boyfriend and we have our moments but I love him and he loves me. We are still learning about each other and its nice to have …
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amazing
October 3, 2008 7:30am
Ive been doing researching about my family history for my dad and his family reunion next summer. Ive found some interesting things about …
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wow....cant stop smiling..
October 1, 2008 7:36am
Yesterday with my guy...was so great. we had dinner at his place, watch tv and just talked. he looked over at me and talked about being my man. …
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One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the wife was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't "anymore". No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute." Sometimes, what we care about the most gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can say good-bye, say"I love you."
So while we have it, it's best we love it, care for it, fix it when it's broken and heal it when it's sick. This is true for marriage.....And old cars... And children with bad habits and report cards, and dogs with bad hips, and aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.
Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a sister-in-law after divorce. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.
Life is important, like people we know who are special.. And so, we keep them close!
I received this from someone who thought I was a 'keeper'! Then I sent it to the people I think of in the same way.... Now it's your turn to send this to all those people who are "keepers" in your life, including the person who sent it, if you feel that way. Suppose one morning you never wake up, do all your friends know you love them?
I was thinking...I could die today, tomorrow or next week, and I wondered if I had any wounds needing to be healed, friendships that needed rekindling or three words needing to be said.
Let every one of your friends know you love them. Even if you think they don't love you back, you would be amazed at what those three little words and a smile J can do. And just in case I'm gone tomorrow.
I LOVE YA!!!
Live today because tomorrow is not promised..-
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A little known fact.....
The first testicular guard "Cup" was used in Hockey in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974.
It took 100 years for men to realize that the brain is also important. 
Little Love
hey girl ! im so thankful that ur mom is home and doing much better ! so much is in the power of prayer
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Little Love
sending some love to my best girlie !! i hope everything has gotten better ! u know how to reach me if u need me :) love you !
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hey girl just sending ya a hug and congrats on your engagement. happy for you. much hugs and take care christa
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Goals
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
Treatments
- Reading Somewhat Helpful
- Support from Friends & Family Not Working
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- Positive Thinking Too Soon to Tell
- Writing Somewhat Helpful
Close Stress Management
I have a father who is dealing with prostate cancer on top of my crazy love life making it hard at times for me to deal with other things in my life.
Treatments
- Music Somewhat Helpful
- Patience Somewhat Helpful
- Physical Exercise Working / Worked
Open Diets & Weight Maintenance
im a former boxer, currently a plus size model and writer who is trying to lose weight.
Treatments
- Dancing Somewhat Helpful
- Physical Exercise Somewhat Helpful
- Slim-Fast Working / Worked
Open Pre-menstrual Syndrome (PMS)
the feeling is so overwhemling at times for me. one minute im smiling, the next im mad and even at times crying.
Treatments
- Oral Contraceptives Working / Worked
Open Anger Management
i use to be a boxer which helped me out alot but now i find myself getting mad and a few months ago i did something that im not proud of.
Open Physical & Emotional Abuse
ive had a man put his hands on me while other in other relationships men have emotionally abused me time and time again telling me that i didnt know what i was talking about.
Treatments
- Leave Working / Worked
- Psychotherapy Somewhat Helpful
- Talking Working / Worked
Open Prostate Cancer
My dad has prostate cancer. my uncles have it too. all types of cancer is very heavy on my dad's side of his family.
Treatments
- Premarin Somewhat Helpful
- Testosterone Somewhat Helpful
Open Abstinence & Celibacy
July 22, 2008 I decided to become celibant because Im tried of giving my body to men who in my opinion dont deserve it until i feel that they have earned it. there are many levels of getting to know someone. my last serious relationship ended on may 17, 2008 and after that i was trying to find affection any way i could but ive put a stop to it and im waiting for real love to come into my life.
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Groups
PHYSICAL AND VERBAL ABUSE SURVIVORS
LOVE ADDICTION
A Laughter Club
Support during the Honeymoon phase
Emotional Support
The Coffee Shop
singles
Writers Corner
Women helping Women
friendship group
Buddy System
WOMEN ONLY
Dating and New Relationships
Women who Love too Much
Love yourself before you love anyone else
