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kramd5
Female, 54, East Moline, IL
"i am tired of getting old... and having to take care of the hubby when i got my own problems... yeah i a a whiney b ch! i am soooo bad!"
2:15pm, October 15, 2009
too much manual labor Mood
Thursday, October 15, 2009
hubby went ot the chiro today. his back is totally messed up!! he has bone spurs on his vertebrae and the vertebrae are concave. he is not to sit much at all. supposed to be prone.. gotta do some PT at home. and goes back tomorrow. maybe have to have surgery. no more heavy lifting ... no moving people when they need it! he said somethingabout using a back brace and i told him emphatically NOOOOO then yuo'd just feel like you could do anything and that better not happen.... i need to go to the chiro with him to get more info, but it doesn't seem to be good news... hope everybody is haveing an ok day.... take care. hugs,deby
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  1. debRAinOC

    I hope your hubby takes it easy and gets better quickly without surgery. He sounds like my hub: every Saturday/Sunday night he can barely move from doing yardwork and other chores that "have to get done." I tell him to take care of himself, but he always pushes through the pain.


    debRAinOC

  2. bc2

    Yah, make sure you go with him, else you may be the one doing the heavy lifting. That's way bad that he's got back issues, and I hope they can be resolved without surgery. But, I have some friends who got big time relief with surgery. It's just such a sensitive place. big hugs to you both, doug


    bc2

  3. kramd5

    he used to be a warehouseman in his other life for 28 years before he started at the hotel.. i plan to go to the chiro with him tomorrow. thanks allot. deby


    kramd5

  4. lam0814

    Deby...all I can say is, "ouch!" Nothing hurts like back pain. There's no relief no matter how you sit or stand, it seems. I hope they can get him better soon. Hugs, Lisa


    lam0814

  5. snooksmama

    oh how horrible! I am so fortunate to have never had back pain save for the fractured scapula that was near my spine, and that was horrible. I hope that he will listen and take care of himself! How are you doing Ms. Deby??


    snooksmama

  6. sandym

    Umm, Deb, I don't like the sound of this. I had bone spurs on my spine when I had my first back surgery. A back brace is not the way to go, you are right he would just keep doing what he has been doing!! Man he has to be so miserable. Hope the PT works. He will have to strengthen the back muscles to hold the spine straight. It never worked for me, but I am dirt, and he is spring!! Tell him I am sorry he is so miserable. Hugs Sandy


    sandym

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