Journal Entry for November 25, 2006
Everyone keeps telling me that "he is wrong" not me. He is the one who started this problem with the family and is afraid to accept responsibility …
Parent who is very heartbroken for what her child has done to her.
Parent who is very heartbroken for what her child has done to her.
I have no interest in anything right now.
I have no interest in anything right now.
Everyone keeps telling me that "he is wrong" not me. He is the one who started this problem with the family and is afraid to accept responsibility …
I called my son at the foster home on Wednesday to wish him a Happy Thanksgiving. He hung up on me. I then called back and the foster mother told …
I am giong through the same sort of thigs with two teenage boys.I too am heartbroken that they could treat me and their Dad the way they do,but I was told something yesterday that made me stop and think.They have really stepped over the boundrys when they behave like this and We have to be strong in the belief that we are doing the right things for our kids,and right not allowing them to be disrespectful because if we aren't they will continue to abuse us all their lives and ours.Be strong,and good luck.If you need to talk I'm here.
I went thru some similiar difficult times w./ my daughter,my prayers r w/ U!!!It is Heartbreaking!!(I KNOW!!)How old is your son now??Can u get him back??I bet he sure is regretting his actions right about now!At that age,I guess they(obviosly),DO NOT understand the repercussions their actions may carry!!I'm here 4 ya if ya need to talk! Good luck! Love,pamm xxx
all the things I have been reading and counseling and talking to people do help..I have a 16yr old girl who was the everything to me. Has been come very distant and at times abusive and mean. I can remember her telling me she hates me, I am disgusting, but what I read, this just a way to get there message across that they are feeling down, so they have to hurt you.. and not to take it personally...how can you not..but with the support of friends and people going thru the same thing it does make it better.
Sometimes the details of the story aren't as important as not being alone in dealing with the rampant emotions that go with this kind of stuff! Here's a hug from me, for whatever you might need from it. Sent with warmth and good thoughts.
I am so very sorry to hear of your story. I hope time will help heal for you and your son.
My story started when my son was 13. He started changing before my eyes. His attitude was different. He wouldn't listen to me. He would lie and fabricate stories to me. Also, he would say, to my face, you hit me and I am going to tell the police, when in all honesty, I didn't even touch him. I would say to him "that is not true and tell him that it's not good to say things like that" But, his behavior continued like this for many years to come. DSS finally stepped in and took him away.