and so it goes.....
May 18, 2009 11:32pm
Goal Completed on Aug 28, 08
Belle5 
3:32pm, June 10, 2009
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About Me
Belle5
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About Me
I am divorced mom of two wonderful boys. In my mid-40's I am literally starting my life over again and looking forward to all the positive changes it has in store for me. I chose happiness over sadness and I like to take the high road on most ideas and ways of life. I am full of life and am hoping someday to find someone to compliment me as I would them. It's a long road to recovery and I am taking this one day at a time, one step at a time. I enjoy times with my boys and alone time, but not too much, I'm such a people person.
I am divorced mom of two wonderful boys. In my mid-40's I am literally starting my life over again and looking forward to all the positive changes it has in store for me. I chose happiness over sadness and I like to take the high road on most ideas and ways of life. I am full of life and am hoping someday to find someone to compliment me as I would them. It's a long road to recovery and I am taking this one day at a time, one step at a time. I enjoy times with my boys and alone time, but not too
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Interests
Gardening, cooking, wine, sports, outside activities, summer days and sunny days at the beach. I love to camp but find myself most at peace sitting in a chair at the edge of the ocean just listening to the waves lap on the shore.
Gardening, cooking, wine, sports, outside activities, summer days and sunny days at the beach. I love
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Hugbook
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another one! you can save it for a rainy mental health day :)
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Checking to see how you are doing...hope things are great for ya.
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I’m With You
getting better. me either being online or DS. Am gonna be DE with in the next two weeks. Cant remember exactly.
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How are ya?
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just cuz!
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Goals
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
I have been separated for almost a year now, divorce is imminent but the battle has just begun. I've realigned my life in the past two years to make myself a better person and truthfully my husband no longer fit in it. He was lazy, laid off for more months in any given year than not. Some have said I simply threw him away, but in the whole body/life makeover there was simply nothing left in common with us except our son. I've found a new purpose in life and am learning how to do this alone.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- We tried this route, it seemed the more we spoke openly the less we actually had in common.
- Leave Working / Worked
- It worked, it actually allowed us both time to heal, although he still holds grudges
- Music Working / Worked
- Music is always therapy for me, whether I am listening or singing along.
- Pets Working / Worked
- I have a dog, I always have, he is my salvation on a lonely day.
- Reading Somewhat Helpful
- I always like to read, just not always what is right for me.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Family has always been very supportive.
- Talking Working / Worked
- I am a talker, I speak openly whether it is good or bad the verdict is still out on that one.
- Time Working / Worked
- Heals, but it doesn't always allow us to move forward!
Close Gastric Bypass Surgery
I had gastric bypass surgery Nov 06, I have been fortunate with no problems. I have lost 120lb and now the challenge daily is to maintain this healthy new lifestyle.
Open Healthy Relationships
I am 44, separated almost a year and starting to think about getting back out there. My divorce should be final soon, I hope sooner than later, but he keeps changing things.....I have two wonderful boys and love life again!
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- Writing Working / Worked
- I love to write how I feel, no matter how silly, stupid or great it is. It always makes me feel better to put it down in words.
Open Physical & Emotional Abuse
I was married for 8 years together for 11, it didn't start out that way, but as time progressed my friends disappeared, my life was in shambles and I just never seemed to do anything right. I left him last year, it's been a long year of healing and realizations and I'm still working on it.
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