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whiskeytangofoxtrot 
8:00am, October 19, 2009
Dearest Husband,
You amaze me. You get pissed off and nasty yelling at our children when they fall asleep in the living room with the tv on. You have snapped on our oldest for falling asleep with the tv on in her room. You freak out if you walk through the living room and at that specific moment if no one is in the room, start yelling about who's watching tv because noone was in the room. (even if the one who was just ran to the restroom or something).
I agree with you on some parts. I despise sleeping with the tv on. They don't do it all the time but sh*t happens. And the way you freak if the tv in the living room is on and noone is in the room at that very moment I find just plain out stupid. Chill out or just turn it off.
The best part of all of this................
YOU PURPOSELY TURN ON THE TELEVISION IN OUR BEDROOM AND GO TO SLEEP FOR HOURS!!!!!!
What a dick!!
I come in the room for something, while your sleeping and turn it off. I come in later for something else and you've turned it back on and are sleeping again.
THAT game PISSES me OFF!!!
What a dick! Your arrogance blows my mind!!
deep breath............whew.......I feel better now..........LOL
Comments
Wow, I agree with you! They say that which bothers us most is what we don't like about ourselves.
Amber9999
Hey there chick I know exactly how you feel. I cannot stand the T.V. being on while sleeping. I guess for me personally it gives me even more messed up dreams but my H can't seem to sleep without it. At least sets the timer on it though. I think you are more frustrated with the double standards he has though. So my question is have you talked to him about it. Remember there is suppose to be a change and in order to do this it means you have to have the courage to talk to him when things bother you so that they don't fester and build as they have done before. Once you talk to him then it's on him to change that behavior and find a compromise between the two of you. I know you are just venting to get it off your chest. I just wanted to give you a reminder of what you resolved to do. Hold tight dear friend and know that I am listening.
4BooBoo
You are right! And I most certainly have made my point clear to him about the absurdity of his reactions when his actions are exactly against what he says. He knows and you are right. It's his decision to act. I ain't stressin it.
whiskeytangofoxtrot
He sounds manipulative. Did you read this article? http://www.helium.com/items/824475... I believe my husband sometimes knowingly, sometimes unknowingly creates a level of chaos in our home that mimics the painful childhood he experienced. I hope this helps you. Perhaps you have a man like mine
Bridget51
i hate when people are like that. hopefully he comes to his senses before he pushes everyone away...
ammc