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  • About Me

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    whiskeytangofoxtrot

    Female, 36
    The South, USA
    Member since June 27, 2008

    • About Me

      I am in an unhappy marriage with a man that I will never be able to prove that I love. When you love someone with everything that you are but don't see it in their eyes it starts to kill you inside, and I want to get out before it does.

      I am in an unhappy marriage with a man that I will never be able to prove that I love. When you love someone with everything that you are but don't see it in their eyes it starts to kill you inside, and I want to get out before it does.

    • Interests

      Fun. Kids. Music. Laughter. Honesty. Animals. Cats. Military. Yoga. Friends. Life. Pride. Active. Dedicated. Trucks. Jack Daniels. Beer. Living Life to the fullest.

      Fun. Kids. Music. Laughter. Honesty. Animals. Cats. Military. Yoga. Friends. Life. Pride. Active. Dedicated.

  • Journal

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    • Random again

      Mood November 16, 2009 4:45pm

       

      Well, was going to journal a week as stated previously and still will but life happened and needed to deal with some things. THough I have come …

    • Monday Observations

      Mood November 10, 2009 4:12pm

      I go to bed wondering if I make a big deal out of nothing. I wonder if I’m being to hard on myself. Or I’m being too critical or hard on …

    • venting to feel better

      Mood November 9, 2009 2:55pm

       

      My life is not horrible. But it is so sad at times.

       

      Why am I so unhappy?

       

      You don't beat me. We pay our bills. Our kids are …

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    • Hug

      From 4BooBoo Yesterday

      Awesome avi...Check out my new foster in my photos.

    • Thumbs Up

      From 4BooBoo Thursday

      BTW I love the new avi. Have you looked on Petfinder.com

      Oh and they have asked me if I could take in another foster. Her name is Coco Channel and she is sort of mean but I think that is because she has been isolated in the cage at petsmart and has been completely miserable. They are hoping that since I am so interactive with the other cats I might get her to calm down and warm up a bit. I told them I am probably gonna need me some thick gloves cause she is a major biter but I will try and see if I cant help and become her friend.

    • Funny Face

      From 4BooBoo Thursday

      Thank you about the comment on my crazy cat lady journal. As for the other journal, trust I have already tried to get it out of his name but the Cred Union won't allow it. The best I could do was get a different loan from another bank I have and I paid a majority off using that. Mind you it didn't cover it all because he is still responsible for 2 credit cards that we had in both our names. Apparently he has maxed them out though. So like it or not I am connected to him still financially and yeah I gotta tell ya it freaking sucks.

    • Chocolate

      From jhenson277 Thursday

      ..because chocolate can't get you pregnant..here's some hugs n kizzes ...

    • Hug

      From 4BooBoo Wednesday

      I suggest you look at petfinder.com I know all of our kitties are on there as well as a lot of other rescue organizations. If you have a specific type of cat in mind you will probably find them there. Be it male or female or long or shorthaired or cat or kitten. Check it out if you really are interested. Plus I am will to take a drive on a weekend if you are really really interested in one and if they happen to be up here. On Petfinder.com though you can find cats in your immediate area. I really will take a drive down there one weekend if you do see one in my area and from my organization. Just let me know.

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  • Goals

    Progress

    70 %

    Goal End Date is Dec 1, 09 10 more days.

    Progress

    40 %

    Goal End Date is Nov 30, 08 356 days ago.
    Time (Minut)
    14.14
    Goal Completed on Feb 4, 09
  • Support Groups

    • Close Infidelity

      For a brief time I thought he may have strayed. Im still not convinced he didn't.

      Treatments

      Divorce Considering
      He seems to have serious issues trusting me though I've never given him a reason not to. Makes me wonder what he has done to start not trusting me.
    • Close Military Families

      I am currently in the military.

    • Open Twins, Triplets & More

      Mother of 12 year old identical twin girls. All natural delivery and no assistance concieving. Ask me anything, I can share my experiences.

    • Open Healthy Sex

      I enjoy sex. I love the physical connection. My Husband, not so much. AND his increased size over the years has begun to take it's toll on his ability to perform and desire to perform.

      Treatments

      Talking Not Working
      He's not a talker.
    • Open Fitness Goals
      Type: Be the best you can be

      I come from an obese family and am in the Military. I must maintain a level of fitness for the military and want to maintain physical health as I enjoy an active lifestyle.

      Treatments

      Aerobics Working / Worked
      Boot Camp Style Aerobics.
      Dancing Working / Worked
      Burns ALOT of calories.
      Elliptical Trainer Working / Worked
      Great for building endurance up.
      Personal Trainer Working / Worked
      Educated me on goals that are realistic for ME and my body.
      Running Working / Worked
      The only way to get better at it is to DO IT!
      Slim-Fast Not Working
      Not realistic for long term maintenance of health.
      Strength Training Working / Worked
      I am getting stronger but you must maintain a routine to maintain gains.
      Yoga Working / Worked
      Awesome for after working out as a cool down. Definately reduces soreness
    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      After many years of unhappiness I have told my husband I want a divorce. I am in the process of trying to see if I want to stay now that there is no hidden feelings anymore.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Not an option as he doesn't believe in therapists, psychology, etc.
      Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
      I have held onto things for years that upset me. I realize it is not fair for me to be angry with him when he didn't know it upset me so badly. I am teaching myself to speak up when I am upset and letting go of things he's done in the past.
      Leave Considering
      I am trying to find the strength in myself to face the truth and leave him.
      Love Not Working
      The love I've had for him has started to die and I don't know if I can build it back up again.
      Music Somewhat Helpful
      Music has been my ONLY outlet in times of stress about this. IPOD and the GYM are all I got.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      My best friends have definately pulled me off the roof with the shotgun more than once. They are of utmost importance to me.
      Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
      This website has been a godsend!!
      Talking Too Soon to Tell
      Divorce is a strong word. He is listening now but Im not sure this is going to work. I think our ways are just too different.
      Time Too Soon to Tell
      I have opened up the conversation with him. He KNOWS what I am feeling. It is up to him to help me continue to love him but he still hasn't started loving himself yet.
    • Open Codependency

      I belive my husband is addicted to me in a sense of co-dependancy. He sees me as something that must be 'saved' and 'cared for' to the point that it is unhealthy. This has gotten extreme throughout our marriage to the point that his own health and self worth is dangerously volitile.

      Treatments

      Reading Somewhat Helpful
      I am trying to educate myself on this issue. But I cannot help him if he doesn't know his own problems.
    • Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)

      I have 3 teenaged girls. (includes a set of twins). My parenting style has been called old-fashioned and traditional but seems to be working so far as we have a great relationship.

    • Open Child Support & Custody

      If(when) I leave my marriage I plan to leave my children with thier father in order to not disrupt thier lives as much. Am looking for other moms experience in doing this.

    • Open Plastic Surgery

      Mother of 3(including twins), in good physical condition, considering a tummy tuck. Here to educate myself through other's experiences.

    • Open Obesity

      My husband has reached the point of obesity. I am here to learn. I fear for his health and his life.

      Treatments

      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Somewhat Helpful
      He lost over 100 pounds several years ago on the Atkins diet but it has all since been put back on.
      Physical Exercise Not Working
      He says he doesn't have the time due to his job.
    • Open Healthy Eating

      See what I can learn, I eat healthier than most people I think. My husband absolutely does not and I want to make sure I am a good example for my children

      Treatments

      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      I keep active and engage my children as much as possible in fun physical activities.
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