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  • About Me

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    whiskeytangofoxtrot

    Female, 36
    The South, USA
    Member since June 27, 2008

    • About Me

      I have been married for 14 years and have thought of leaving it for many of them. He is a good man but not for me. We are too different. I alerted him to this summer of 09 and he says he wants to keep me and make me happy. But I don't want him to be something he is not. He changed, I didn't. I hate his constant negativity. I believe I am leaving him soon.

      I have been married for 14 years and have thought of leaving it for many of them. He is a good man but not for me. We are too different. I alerted him to this summer of 09 and he says he wants to keep me and make me happy. But I don't want him to be something he is not. He changed, I didn't. I hate his constant negativity. I believe I am leaving him soon.

    • Interests

      I am me. I am the same woman I was 10 years ago. The same one as 15 years ago. I am only a little wiser and more mature. I am that crazy chick in the car next to you at the stoplight dancing and singing in the drivers seat. And I don't care if your watching me. I am very happy with who I am and want to make sure my girls grow up and feel the same way about life themselves.

      I am me. I am the same woman I was 10 years ago. The same one as 15 years ago. I am only a little wiser

  • Journal

    • Little tidbits of life

      Mood November 6, 2009 4:07pm

       

      I hate the constant emotional fluctuations that is my life.

       

      Vegas was a nice break from reality for me at least. Our life has changed so …

    • Nothing exceptional

      Mood October 14, 2009 3:57pm

      I got nothing ground breaking or exceptional today. Just bored at the moment at work and am trying to kill some time til I can leave.

       

      Im really …

    • The life you are missing

      Mood October 12, 2009 10:02am

       

      I asked myself what would I do if given a few hours of freetime, by that I mean, no kids, no job duties, nothing HAVING to get done right now …

    • Journal Entry for September 28, 2009

      Mood September 28, 2009 10:35am

      I feel the overwhelming urge to be positive today. I despise coming on here and seeing all the negativity that I give off sometimes. It really is not …

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    • Chocolate

      From 4BooBoo Friday

      If I had truly got what I wanted then I wouldn't be sitting here alone with just the cats to keep me company and I would know that there is someone in this world that loves me.... Right now although I am trying to push through it I have to admit I feel completely and utterly alone and lonely. We haven't really had any contact since he moved out. He is suppose to come over Sunday to get the rest of his things and to give me the keys and the garage door opener. I really do think that will probably be the last time I see him until either the divorce is final and/or the house gets sold, which ever comes first.

    • Funny Face

      From 4BooBoo October 15

      Thanks it is an absolute cutie isn't it. I was going to put up a CatWoman pic but I saw this and told myself... I have to do it.

    • Little Love

      From NotDeadYet October 12

      Thanks for the journal comment. You made me blush a little.... then smile.

    • Moment of Peace

      From 4BooBoo October 3

      Thanks for the lovin... I am still sorta speechless too. I am trying to stay strong. I think I am in survival mode and I don't know how long it will last but I will try to use it wisely. Hope things are going better for you.

    • Hug

      From lovewins October 2

      how are u

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  • Goals

    Progress

    70 %

    Goal End Date is Dec 1, 09 22 more days.

    Progress

    40 %

    Goal End Date is Nov 30, 08 344 days ago.
    Time (Minut)
    14.14
    Goal Completed on Feb 4, 09
  • Support Groups

    • Close Infidelity

      For a brief time I thought he may have strayed. Im still not convinced he didn't.

      Treatments

      Divorce Considering
      He seems to have serious issues trusting me though I've never given him a reason not to. Makes me wonder what he has done to start not trusting me.
    • Close Military Families

      I am currently in the military.

    • Open Twins, Triplets & More

      Mother of 12 year old identical twin girls. All natural delivery and no assistance concieving. Ask me anything, I can share my experiences.

    • Open Healthy Sex

      I enjoy sex. I love the physical connection. My Husband, not so much. AND his increased size over the years has begun to take it's toll on his ability to perform and desire to perform.

      Treatments

      Talking Not Working
      He's not a talker.
    • Open Fitness Goals
      Type: Be the best you can be

      I come from an obese family and am in the Military. I must maintain a level of fitness for the military and want to maintain physical health as I enjoy an active lifestyle.

      Treatments

      Aerobics Working / Worked
      Boot Camp Style Aerobics.
      Dancing Working / Worked
      Burns ALOT of calories.
      Elliptical Trainer Working / Worked
      Great for building endurance up.
      Personal Trainer Working / Worked
      Educated me on goals that are realistic for ME and my body.
      Running Working / Worked
      The only way to get better at it is to DO IT!
      Slim-Fast Not Working
      Not realistic for long term maintenance of health.
      Strength Training Working / Worked
      I am getting stronger but you must maintain a routine to maintain gains.
      Yoga Working / Worked
      Awesome for after working out as a cool down. Definately reduces soreness
    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      After many years of unhappiness I have told my husband I want a divorce. I am in the process of trying to see if I want to stay now that there is no hidden feelings anymore.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Not an option as he doesn't believe in therapists, psychology, etc.
      Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
      I have held onto things for years that upset me. I realize it is not fair for me to be angry with him when he didn't know it upset me so badly. I am teaching myself to speak up when I am upset and letting go of things he's done in the past.
      Leave Considering
      I am trying to find the strength in myself to face the truth and leave him.
      Love Not Working
      The love I've had for him has started to die and I don't know if I can build it back up again.
      Music Somewhat Helpful
      Music has been my ONLY outlet in times of stress about this. IPOD and the GYM are all I got.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      My best friends have definately pulled me off the roof with the shotgun more than once. They are of utmost importance to me.
      Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
      This website has been a godsend!!
      Talking Too Soon to Tell
      Divorce is a strong word. He is listening now but Im not sure this is going to work. I think our ways are just too different.
      Time Too Soon to Tell
      I have opened up the conversation with him. He KNOWS what I am feeling. It is up to him to help me continue to love him but he still hasn't started loving himself yet.
    • Open Codependency

      I belive my husband is addicted to me in a sense of co-dependancy. He sees me as something that must be 'saved' and 'cared for' to the point that it is unhealthy. This has gotten extreme throughout our marriage to the point that his own health and self worth is dangerously volitile.

      Treatments

      Reading Somewhat Helpful
      I am trying to educate myself on this issue. But I cannot help him if he doesn't know his own problems.
    • Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)

      I have 3 teenaged girls. (includes a set of twins). My parenting style has been called old-fashioned and traditional but seems to be working so far as we have a great relationship.

    • Open Child Support & Custody

      If(when) I leave my marriage I plan to leave my children with thier father in order to not disrupt thier lives as much. Am looking for other moms experience in doing this.

    • Open Plastic Surgery

      Mother of 3(including twins), in good physical condition, considering a tummy tuck. Here to educate myself through other's experiences.

    • Open Obesity

      My husband has reached the point of obesity. I am here to learn. I fear for his health and his life.

      Treatments

      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Somewhat Helpful
      He lost over 100 pounds several years ago on the Atkins diet but it has all since been put back on.
      Physical Exercise Not Working
      He says he doesn't have the time due to his job.
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