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  • About Me

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    whiskeytangofoxtrot

    Female, 102
    Here, USA
    Member since June 27, 2008

    • About Me

      I have been married much longer than I ever should have been. I have finally accepted within me that I do not wish to be with him any longer and it is OK. I have told him I want a divorce and now am giving him a chance to change my mind, though I don't think he will. Now I am trying to keep my career on track, keep my children strong and pave their futures.. And NO there is not anyone else.

      I have been married much longer than I ever should have been. I have finally accepted within me that I do not wish to be with him any longer and it is OK. I have told him I want a divorce and now am giving him a chance to change my mind, though I don't think he will. Now I am trying to keep my career on track, keep my children strong and pave their futures.. And NO there is not anyone else.

    • Interests

      I am me. I am the same woman I was 10 years ago. The same one as 15 years ago. I am only a little wiser and more mature. I am that crazy chick in the car next to you at the stoplight dancing and singing in the drivers seat. And I don't care if your watching me or not. I am very happy with who I am and want to make sure my girls grow up and feel the same way about themselves.

      I am me. I am the same woman I was 10 years ago. The same one as 15 years ago. I am only a little wiser

  • Recent Activity

    Recently:

    • 2 journal posts, 1 hug received, 1 hug given

    Wednesday

    • whiskeytangofoxtrot wrote a journal entry: Small Vent 11:32pm

      Dearest Husband, You amaze me. You get pissed off and nasty yelling at our children when they fall asleep…  

    Tuesday

    June 21

  • Journal

    • Small Vent

      Mood July 1, 2009 11:32pm

      Dearest Husband,

       

      You amaze me. You get pissed off and nasty yelling at our children when they fall asleep in the living room with the tv on. …

    • General update

      Mood June 30, 2009 10:46pm

      I've been home for a week.

       

      I've missed the girls terribly and love being back home with them. They really need a female figure right …

    • A day in my life

      Mood May 31, 2009 12:59pm

      Just a day in my life right now.

       

      Had a good night last night. Went out with about 10 people to the club. I was the designated driver(because I …

    • Im going to go home.

      Mood May 17, 2009 1:09pm

       

      I felt safe and comforted in his arms. This is of utmost importance.

       

      I told myself I would let him change my mind. I told him everything. …

    • This is it. TIme to make a decision.

      Mood May 14, 2009 12:19pm

      First things first........ 

       

      My baby got her liscence yesterday. I cannot believe that my baby can now drive the streets in a truck all by …

    Read Journal

  • Hugbook

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    • Hug

      From hope4more Tuesday

      Welcome home ! Good luck with your new goals!

    • Hug

      From angel52 June 3

      Miss talking -how are you ? Back at work so my time is limited. Thinking about you BIG HUGS.
      Angel52

    • Hug

      From LoneCedar May 19

      Thank you! It helps to know I'm not alone in this. I'd love to hear why/how you are staying now. It's been 2 years for me and I just can't do it anymore. I just can't.

    • Hug

      From ammc May 15

      thank you!

    • Prayer

      From hope4more May 14

      Do the next right thing and keep your children informed. Kids get confused and upset, but if they understand that you love them and will be in their lives, they will adapt.

    Read Hugbook

  • Goals

    Progress

    40 %

    Goal End Date is Nov 30, 08 217 days ago.
    Time (Minut)
    14.14

    Progress

    40 %

    Goal End Date is Dec 1, 09 149 more days.
    Goal Completed on Feb 4, 09
  • Support Groups

    • Close Infidelity

      I don't know if he has or hasn't. Too many weird things say he could be/could have yet other things say No Way! Others are the ones to point this out to me, so maybe Im just being blind. I don't know, but I am definately paying attention now.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Not an option. He REFUSES!
      Divorce Considering
    • Close Military Families

      I am currently in the military.

    • Open Twins, Triplets & More

      Mother of 12 year old identical twin girls. All natural delivery and no assistance concieving. Ask me anything, I'll try to guide ya.

    • Open Healthy Sex

      I really, really, really LOVE sex. ALOT!

      Treatments

      Talking Not Working
      The more I talk about it the more he tries to avoid it.
    • Open Fitness Goals
      Type: Be the best you can be

      About to meet the hardest physical challenge of my LIFE! But Im ready for it! And enjoying the preparation

      Treatments

      Aerobics Working / Worked
      Boot Camp Style Aerobics.
      Elliptical Trainer Working / Worked
      Great for building endurance up.
      Personal Trainer Somewhat Helpful
      Educated me on goals that are realistic for ME.
      Running Working / Worked
      The only way to get better at it is to DO IT!
      Strength Training Working / Worked
      Just starting this, I am getting stronger.
      Yoga Working / Worked
      Awesome for after working out as a cool down. Definately reduces soreness
    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      After too many years of unhappiness I have told my husband I want a divorce. I am allowing him to try and make me change my mind.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Not an option as he refuses.
      Leave Considering
      I am trying to find the strength in myself to face the truth and leave him.
      Love Not Working
      The love I've had for him has started to die.
      Music Somewhat Helpful
      Music has been my ONLY outlet in times of stress about this. IPOD and the GYM are all I got.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      My best friends have definately pulled me off the roof with the shotgun more than once. They are of utmost importance to me.
      Talking Too Soon to Tell
      Divorce is a strong word. He is listening now but we'll see if he is paying attention.
      Time Too Soon to Tell
      I have opened up the conversation with him. He KNOWS what I am feeling. He chooses to not respond to any of my questions. I will not make any rash decisions but I cannot do this for much longer.
    • Open Codependency

      I just realized that this is my husband. I need to learn!!

    • Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)

      Got 3 teenagers

    • Open Child Support & Custody

      I will be starting a divorce soon. Have 3 teenaged girls. Just joining to learn what I can.

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