Tired
December 5, 2008 3:53pm
I made a decision last week to boot the liar that I'm with. Right now it isn't an easy thing to do. We have a business together that we have …
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I am 54, am very family oriented, am considered to be attractive, love kids and business oriented.
I am 54, am very family oriented, am considered to be attractive, love kids and business oriented.
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"The best predictor of the future, is the past. Always true?????" My counseler says that this perticular way of thinking will "sabatoge" any chance the relationship has to move forward.
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I'm with you 100% intellectually. It's my emotions (fear primarily) that takes over and is way strong. I try to out maneuver the emotion and get to the heart of it... this has helped.
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Grand Thanks for the support. I really don't understand what went so wrong that made her do what she did (and is still doing). I know I have to move on but it is very hard. I'm sure you know. Thanks Tornup
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Close Infidelity
I am with a man who has cheated. He is very insecure and seems to need alot of attention. I am not sure what I want to do yet. I'm not really that sure if I can even get past what he has done. Once the trust is broken, regaining it seems like too much work.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Too Soon to Tell
- four counseling sessions--too soon to tell. Amazingly, he is the one that is the most angry. He says because he is embarrassed. I say because he was caught.
Close Healthy Sex
I just want to be with someone who would like to have sex on a regular basis. I love sex but men seem to be intimidated by that.
Treatments
- Patience Working / Worked
- The guy I am with now is very embarrassed about not being able to last very long in bed but I've never known anyone who has lasted for more than a few minutes. It's not a big deal to me. There are other things that can be done!!!
Open Anger Management
I have been lied to and cheated on and it's very difficult for me to be intimate or trust the person who did these things to me. I feel very angry and humiliated. I would love to have a good relationship,sex and just over all enjoy life but it's fading because of the trust issues.
Open Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
I was sexually abused as a child, beaten and cheated on by two different men (one this past year).
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