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About Me
Nobsy
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About Me
I was a wife, Mother and sold antiques and collectibles. I was a homemaker. I lived in another state and moved. I am a 57 year old widow. I have a granddaughter who turned 3 in March. I miss my husband and my previous life so much and I am trying to keep moving forward.
I was a wife, Mother and sold antiques and collectibles. I was a homemaker. I lived in another state and moved. I am a 57 year old widow. I have a granddaughter who turned 3 in March. I miss my husband and my previous life so much and I am trying to keep moving forward.
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Antiques Collectibles
Antiques Collectibles
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I haven't been to this website for a while as unfortunately I never received a response from it. I just got my August up-date today and saw your lovely and caring message to me. I can only hope that you have the strength to get through today. I've come quite a ways since I last wrote. My grieving process is on-going and some days I still want to pick up the phone and hear my Mom's voice. She's now gone 1 1/2 years but I didn't start grieving for a long time because I was doing what most of us do, i.e., taking care of everyone else but me. I also walled myself off from people and that isn't good. I'm trying more to reach out now. I'm hoping this finds you on the road to healing as I am. I think we'll always have our good days and bad or good moments and sad ones. Occasionally I'll tear up and weep a bit but then things pass. I'll always miss my Mom but I know she is still with me in my heart and somehow I think she's guiding me at times in my dreams and giving me strength. I wish you a lovely day. Please take good care.
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I am 57 and lost my husband of 40 yrs to escosphgeal cancer last April. there's an empty hole in my heart since he's been gone. It took a year for the cancer to take him. your in my prayers and may you have a blessed peaceful week. Love from Ginny
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It's not that I think i is unfair because things happen.And people ask Why.I belive Why Not. Why not me? Why should it be anyone else. You have a group of people standing around and you throw a hand ful of pepples into the air and they fall to the ground.Why should you or anyone else be hit by one or the pepples. It's just the way it is.I don't ask why or say it's not fair.I just I don't know it's just so quite.It is so defeningly guite.
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Thank you so much for your words. They really make sense to me and surprisingly others have written in the same vein, also. Some didn't post their responses in the general discussions because they didn't want to offend anyone. I hope you are having a good day! Hugs, Judy
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Thanks for your encouragement. I'm trying to do the right thing. But sometimes it is sooo hard. I know that I am a changed person because of this and I will never be the same again. I just miss Tabitha sooo much. Again Thank You for your kind words. Beckey
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseLast Winter my husband of 39 years got pain in his hip and they found and removed a massive tumor. It was already too late. He had 4th stage lung cancer that spread to his brain, hip and throughout his body. He had surgery last June and died 4 days after going into Hospice House - September 12, 2006. It was several hours after I told him that I passed my physical for double cataract surgery. I had the surgery - but I would give back my eyesight - I would give anything to have my husband back. We always thought I would die first because I had ongoing, serious health problems. But my husband died instead. He just retired 3 years ago (at 55) and sold our home and moved to a strange place. I feel so alone. Yesterday he was gone 6 months. Today my doctor put me on an anti-depressant. I am afraid to take it.
Treatments
Close Hypothyroidism
I am 58. I have several serious diseases. I lost husband to cancer last year. Became ill after a miscarriage and blood transfusion in 1980. In the early 1990s I was diagnosed with Hepatitis C, early menopause, then Rheumatoid Arthritis and Sjogrens Syndrome. Have hypertension & hypothyroidism. I take 150 mg. of Levothyroxine and I just tried another supplement. I sometimes fell like I am just fighting a losing battle but I just can't give up. I have been fighting too long.
Treatments
- Synthroid Somewhat Helpful
- My hair is still falling out & breaking off after almost 2 years of treatment. I still have most other symptoms too. I don't think it's my answer.
Open Hepatitis C
I had a miscarriage in 1980 and was diagnosed 12 yrs, later. I have several other serious disorders (Rheumatoid Arthritis, Hypothyroidism, Hypertension, Sjogrens Syndrome) and lost my husband to cancer last year. I am 58. Sometimes I just want to give up.
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- Milk Thistle Working / Worked
- I think it helped. I can't take the other treatments nor do I think I would want to.
