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Today has been a day of improvements, thank goodness. Rachel's ANC has jumped from a grand total of 30 yesterday, to …
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Fredsniece 
11:06pm, September 28, 2008
I am trying to think positive thoughts instead of negative. I have also been more involved in my church and this has helped quite a bit. I think alot about my mom...everyday! But I concentrate on that she is in a much happier place and she is no longer in pain. This is how I get by! I am still very angry with my father and this hurts. I am not sure how long it will take for me to get over this? Until then, I will just do what needs to be done on my end. I will not go around anyone or anything that brings me down or makes me feel uncomfortable!
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I think being positve is a great start. Sorry about the loss of your mom. That is hard. Enjoy your day:)
anjeH
Good for you girl. This is how I have made it through the toughest times of my life so far. There's a verse about it in Phillipians. . .I think it's 8:14ish? (I'm at work, I don't have my Bible handy and the numbers are escaping me!!! sorry). You should check it out!!
wolfemom
Your attitude is great! I suggest you try to reconcile with your Father before it's too late. Therapy could help. Anger does no good except eat you up inside~Peace,Katie
asadheart
You shouldn't really be mad at your dad. Your mother knew exactly what he would do, and accepted it. I'm sure he doesn't love your mom any less; my dad remarried after my mother died, too. I know it didn't mean he loved her any less, it just meant he was lonely, and a young daughter's company just wasn't enough for him. I hated my stepmother for years, but eventually had no choice but to accept her. That was the best decision I ever made! Unfortunately it wasn't made before my dad passed away - it would've made him much happier. Don't make the same mistake. Know that your dad loves your mom and most definitely misses her, but needs companionship right now. Offer your friendship to his new friend - it's really not showing any disloyalty to your mom. Instead, you're showing her you love your father enough to accept what he's doing to make himself happy again. Hugs, Nancy
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