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  • About Me

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    Fredsniece

    Female, 45
    New Braunfels, TX, USA
    Member since June 10, 2008

    • About Me

      There is so much going on in my life right now. Less than a year ago...I lost my mother to Lung cancer! What a wonderful mother she was! You may visit her web site at www.charlotte-luce.memory-of.com My mom was such a giving and loving person....everyone loved her and knew she was genuine! Before my mom was diagnosed, we lost two family members in a row. First my Aunt (my mother's sister), from Parkinson's. Then my grandfather! Before this we had not had a death in the family since the early eighties when my Grandmother passed. My mother's funeral had at least 400+ people who attended. My parents are good people therefore many people in our small town came out to give their condolences! The past few months have been a blur. My sister and I helped our father care for our mother. In fact, I resigned from my position of 10 years to be with my mother. I have no regrets and the time we spent together was special! My parents had a wonderful relationship and were married for 40+ years! They protected my siblings and I from the mean world. In fact, we were pretty much sheltered. Right before my mom passed she told me that dad would not be alone long as he could not handle being alone. She was right! Mom has been gone for a little over 9 months and my dad already has a "friend." Now, on top of everything else...I am dealing with the anger I feel towards my dad! How in the world can he already had a "friend" after being married to my mom for so many years? He still loves her! I have no doubt! But he could not handle being alone! I cry daily over this situation. Now, my Uncle has been given 3-6 months to live! Our family is very close and we are all falling apart! I have a family of my own. I have a nine year old who is precious and a wonderful husband who is supportive but really does not understand how I feel! He tries but doesn't say the right things to me. I am not sure what I am looking for? I don't know? I am just trying to make it day by day without falling apart! If my sister and I fall apart...the whole family will and that is not what my sweet mom wanted! Any Suggestions or good advise?

      There is so much going on in my life right now. Less than a year ago...I lost my mother to Lung cancer! What a wonderful mother she was! You may visit her web site at www.charlotte-luce.memory-of.com My mom was such a giving and loving person....everyone loved her and knew she was genuine! Before my mom was diagnosed, we lost two family members in a row. First my Aunt (my mother's sister), from Parkinson's. Then my grandfather! Before this we had not had a death in the family since the early eighties

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      GOD, MY FAMILY, GREAT FRIENDS!

      GOD, MY FAMILY, GREAT FRIENDS!

  • Journal

    • It's over......

      Mood August 23, 2009 11:50pm

      School starts back tomorrow so we are back on a routine!  I am really hoping for a great year.  The past three years have been tough with …

    • My Uncle Fred

      Mood July 10, 2009 3:37pm

      My uncle Fred.....passed away this morning after battling Agent Orange for several years.  He has donated his body to science (not what I wanted …

    • ONE MORE HURTLE TO GET OVER- JUNE 13TH

      Mood June 1, 2009 12:30am

      MY DAD'S WEDDING IS JUNE 13TH. I HAVEN'T BEEN ON MUCH BECAUSE WHAT ELSE IS THERE TO SAY? EVERYONE IS AWARE HOW UNHAPPY I AM ABOUT THIS …
    • Trying to hang in there!!

      Mood April 21, 2009 11:55pm

      My dad is getting married to someone June 13th.  He has moved her into the home we all shared and the home he and my mom built over 40 years …

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    • Hug

      From Bev22827 November 15

      Hi, I hope you are doing okay....praying for you!
      Bev

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      From Grandmamelody September 21

    • See You Later

      From jesse5575 September 14

      hey pussycat, hope your day is fine there in texas, I love seeing you on Facebook and reading your posts. You're a treasure to me, stay adorable, jesse

    • Chocolate

      From jesse5575 September 5

      hey sweetie, how are you today? hope you are fine, I love "seeing" you on facebook, your page rocks and so do you! love you today, jesse with a z.

    • Present

      From carlmdobbs August 26

      I am glad you are doing better.
      Question: Why did the donut have a hole? It aspired to be a golf course and had to start Somewhere! When you are down and out please remember the donut.

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    • Close Veterans

      Hello, I am the niece of a Viet nam Veteran. He has been diagnosed with "Agent Orange." Well of course they call it something different so the Government does not have to admit any wrong doing. Anyways, recently he has been given only 3-6 months to live. He is single and disabled. I am bringing him to my home to live with me. Can anyone give me any suggestions on what I can do to help my uncle. Will he be able to be buried with other Veterans and is he eligible for any benefits? Denise

      Treatments

      Talking Working / Worked
    • Close Lung Cancer

      Nine months ago, I lost my mom to cancer. I am struggling without her and need some support! I was with mom every step of the way....

      Treatments

      Talking Working / Worked
    • Open Family & Friends of Cancer Patients

      I recently lost my mom and best friend due to Lung Cancer! I am lost without her! I am so sad!

      Treatments

      Talking Working / Worked
    • Open Infertility

      I was an infertility patient for nearly 10 years. We did EVERYTHING...you name it. I did conceive and now have a 9 year old. I understand what those of you go through. I have one son and have never been pregnant again....I feel very lucky!

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