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MichelleP
I am 28yrs old and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for about a year and a half. We just found out that his motality is not good and we would have to get help medically to conceive children. I am so upset because he is not willing to spend the money to get help. He won't talk to me about this, he keeps just brushing me off. He is my best friend and I don't want children with anyone else, but I can't see myself not ever becoming a mother. I feel like I am being pushed into a wall. I don't know how to talk to him to make him understand how I feel. I want him to want this as much as I do, but he seems fine with it. What should I do????






Michelle allow yourself to be who your really are. Who you are is not your circumstance. Know there is a reason for everythibg and prayer is very powerful. If you alow you ti me you and your husband who he is. Both of you will make having a child work.
Grne
It is a very difficult place to be in. Please give your husband some time to grieve. He may come around. Be honest about your feelings and it will make your relationship stronger. My husband and I have been trying for over 5 years (I'm the infertile one). It's been really hard coming to terms with my infertility, but even harder to see my husband grieve.
JPB