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  KMC00 (11/22/09)
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  KMC00 (10/13/09)
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  darkmoni (06/03/09)

  Hope ur having a good week
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  supportplease (03/03/09)

  I'm sure it will help you as much as it helped me. I'm rooting for you!
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  hwshade (02/27/09)

  Hang on. You can do this. IT IS Not Stronger then you.
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  ShondaBerries (12/01/08)

  damn......that is one beautiful poem
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  Scottygs (11/15/08)

  i understand..just wanted you to know you're not alone..and you never have to feel that a couple of years is 'enough time' to get over such a trauma. keeping it all in and not talking to anyone about it can only hurt you badly down the road. at some point when you're ready ..talk to someone, another woman who has been there,to help you heal. you can't imagine how comforting it will be. I'm thinking about you and sending BIG comforting hugs to you. Just remember there are other girls and women who truly do understand how horrible you feel and how awful it all is. Bye for now.
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  Scottygs (11/14/08)

  i just read what you wrote in your description. Good grief, girl..you make it sound as though what happened to you was eons ago and that by now you'd be expected to 'get over it'. NO way! Two years is Nothing! I was also only 19 when I was raped by a man I'd dated before and broken up with. I didn't tell anyone..because no one would have believed me ..and my family was the kind who would have blamed me. I didn't tell them until fairly recently. It was so shocking, my world ended back then. This was a VERY long time ago. You don't'get over it'. You don't 'forgive'. You don't 'heal'..or forget. What you need to do is somehow figure out how to talk to a rape counsellor somewhere (I never have and am still being advised to..and might just still find someone), although my friends have been wonderful...because we just can't do it on our own. You end up with PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder)..It forever taints our lives, and affects everything we do, affects all of our relationships..I'm proof of that. Oh I moved on..made a life, but everything changed. I'm not yet ready to talk about what else changed for me, here.. but maybe I can convince you to talk to someone..even if it's anonymous. Go to a friend's house and call from there...your local library and ask someone there for a brochure from your local Rape Counselling group. You need someone to HEAR you...so you can let out all the pain. Trust me, it does not go away. You've taken a good step by coming here, but it's just not enough to write about it anonymously. I tried that too. I'm so sorry you've been through this. So many of us have and don't talk about it enough. BIG hug.
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  lonely91 (10/10/08)

  **HUGS**
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  lonely91 (09/25/08)

  **RANDOM HUGS**

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