cath's Journal

Matt and I just returned from a 4 day getaway to Cabo....without the kids.  The first time we have left behind all 3 girls to take time just for us.  It was amazing.  We stayed at a beautiful resort, had sunny weather, great food and just lots of time for us.  I didn't have to get anyone dressed, change a diaper, cut someone's food, referee a sibling squabble, drive carpool, pack a lunch, do the laundry, cook dinner, load the dishwasher...you get the picture.

Matt and I woke up when we wanted (I still woke up at 7AM... but it was nice to be able to roll over and go back to sleep), got to work out together, read great books, eat when we wanted, talk without being interrupted, have sex without having to make sure the kids were occupied (and with 3, it's hard to manage that unless they are asleep).... it was lovely.  

In addition to re-connecting with my husband, the nicest part of being away was getting the chance to miss my kids.  I am a stay-at-home mom.... I am with them ALL THE TIME.  I never get a chance to miss them.  And they never get a chance to miss me.  It's nice to get away and not take each other for granted.  I was more than ready to be back with my babies and they were really happy to see me.  When we walked through the door, the 2 older girls (baby asleep) ran into our arms and wouldn't let go.... I think my Parker especially, missed her mommy.  Parker wrapped her arms around me and didn't let go all night.   

Jordan asked Matt last night "Why did you and Mommy have to go away without us?"  and as he was mulling over an answer, I said "mommy and daddy needed special time away so we could be a better mommy and daddy to you."  Happier marriage means happier family.  We're pretty happy right now.