What happens to the children & me now you’ve gone to HEAVEN?
February 4, 2009 7:04pm
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frostyrose
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frostyrose
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About Me
Widow with 2 babies and 1 teenage
Widow with 2 babies and 1 teenage
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Looking after the children and trying to remember to breathe every day!
Looking after the children and trying to remember to breathe every day!
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Close Bereavement
: Loss of a Partner/SpouseAlone with 2 toddlers, 1teenager. My 43yr old husband collapsed with a brain tumour which should of killed him immediately but he died 1yr later after surgery, chemo & radiotherapy. I watched him slowly die in front of my eyes. When he took a deep breath I shook in terror, the clock ticked slowly as I watched, waited & wished i'd wake up from the nightmare! His last year we got married & ad 3rd baby. A year later & I’ve just realized he died and that he isn’t coming home! My heart is broken
Treatments
- Crying Too Soon to Tell
- most of the time i hold it all in but it is better to let it go if you can
- Grief Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- it is really helpful because who else do i shout at I'm not going to do it to the children.
- Keeping Busy Working / Worked
- looking after 2 toddlers and a teenager is a full time job alone. i seem to clean the house a lot. and i work whenever the kids are sleeping up in my office.
- Remembering Too Soon to Tell
- I talk about him every day but the little ones don't really understand what has really happened but I was advised by my counsellor to do this and not to hide it away
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- you really need this but so many people have just walked away!!
- Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
- DS is really helping me to talk and write down what has happened and how i feel, thank you
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- i seem to talk, shout or scream but only really in my head i wish i could say it out aloud.
Close Parenting Toddlers (1-3)
my husband died so bringing up my 2 toddlers and teenager up. life is hard to be a mum anyway and its even harder on your own when your a widow trying to deal with that 2
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- Education (School) Somewhat Helpful
- i have the middle one in nursery 3 mornings a week he loves it so i feel happy that i have no tears
- Patience Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)
my husband died so i'm bringing up a teenager and 2 toddlers. life is hard being a mum we should have a medal...
Treatments
- Patience Somewhat Helpful
- i tell him to go have 5 mins to him self so he can calm his temper down most of the time this helps
- Psychotherapy Somewhat Helpful
- he is doing better at school now
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
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