Journal Entry for March 12, 2007
I am 29 yrs. old and have been married to a wonderful man for almost 5 yrs. now. I love him with all my heart but his family is coming between us …
I am 29 yrs. old and have been married to a wonderful man for almost 5 yrs. now. I love him with all my heart but his family is coming between us …
I'm so Proud of You. Cheire
I just sent you a message I hope I did it right. I'm still on line, if you did't get it. You have to fight fire with fire but beable to camaflouge it to look sweet a pie. Sounds like alot of passive behavor, which it feels like always makes you look like the bad guy. Dealt with the passive aggressive stuff all my life, you can try to make thewm look like the bad guy but is P/A, you will look like the monster and they the victims, unless you've got someone living if with Dad and then realizing what is going on. They have to be the victim,weathers it,s even close to the truth or not and most people"love" them there just so sweet. How can you I move 13 hours away without worry - and oh they worry about himall the time, he has suck great stories, he should write a book or country song - yeah Right. What dad does'nt is that I call every night on my drive home from work. Also that I pay a lady from my church $20.00 a lmonth to check on him once a week, and she invites him out to dinner and he doesn't offer to pay so I send her the $ See maybe your's isn't so bad.
Went through the same kind of his family b/s when I was younger. I hung in there and it all worked out. If you want any pointers, I'd be happy to help.Cherie
hugs
During Thanksgiving my husband's family was to come over about 5p.m. one evening & instead show up about 5 1/2 hrs. early. B/c of this I wasn't able to get things done & not to mention my dad was in town & staying w/ us. He told them to wait but they came over anyway. I have not spoken to any of them since and I am still mad about. It has caused big problems 4 me & my husband. I have not spoken to any of his family members since & they don't feel like they owe me an apology. What 2 do?
I have an 11 yr. old son and oh he is at that age. The attitude and MOUTH! He is also moderate to severe ADHD so the days he doesn't take his meds are not great!