when it rains it pours
May 11, 2009 11:48am
Isn't it amazing how things seems to happen all at once.not only am I still dealing with all of the emotional crap from the divorce but my job is …
MarkD1
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About Me
MarkD1
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About Me
Coming up on 9 months since my wife of 9 years (12 yrs together) left. Divorced as of 2/11/09. She is with my best friends brother and it makes me sick to my stomach. I have 50/50 custody of my little man and love every second of it. I live in the Los Angeles area. I have finally reached the point where I am completely independent and I am happy being alone. I am enjoying being alone and not fearful of it as I once was. I now see how lucky I am to be out of a loveless relationship. Now I will focus on "giving" to myself and my son. We are both doing great. For the new people, it WILL get better. Just work through it and you will make it.
Coming up on 9 months since my wife of 9 years (12 yrs together) left. Divorced as of 2/11/09. She is with my best friends brother and it makes me sick to my stomach. I have 50/50 custody of my little man and love every second of it. I live in the Los Angeles area. I have finally reached the point where I am completely independent and I am happy being alone. I am enjoying being alone and not fearful of it as I once was. I now see how lucky I am to be out of a loveless relationship. Now I will focus
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Interests
Riding my HD Road King, running, lifting weights, kickboxing, hanging out, being outdoors, and most of all, hanging with my little one.
Riding my HD Road King, running, lifting weights, kickboxing, hanging out, being outdoors, and most of
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waking up looking for your partner
May 9, 2009 11:14am
I went to bed at a decent hour last night thinking that I would get a good nights sleep. Well, I had dreams of being with someone, not my ex, so the …
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I'm tired and angry
April 30, 2009 10:14am
I feel like everyone else is getting better and slowly moving on and I am stagnant. All I do every minute of every day is think about how terrible …
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Realizing that missing my son os what is killing me
April 28, 2009 9:47am
I finally came to realize that every week that I have my son I am doing great. I am happy and could care less about my worries. When Sunday arrives I …
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Down, down, down, and down some more...
April 20, 2009 7:38pm
Thanks to all for the positive feedback on my last entry. I'm feeling the same. I'm not looking for anyone to solve my problems...especialy …
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Moment of Peace
Hope you're doing well, buddy. Wishing you inner peace and restful nights.
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Happy Fathers Day
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So sad to see you had to call your best friend, so sad to hear that. And I know all about how hurtful it is to be betrayed by a loved one. Hoping you are nearing the end of your "processing" through this thing, & wishing you all the best (((hug))).
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You are not a loser... she's just a drama queen
Good Luck
I sometimes wish I could time-warp to the part in a relationship where you're past the "trying on" stage and just be at the knowing them, liking them a lot stage, the place where they know how you take your coffee, if you'd like another drink, what movie we'll rent at the video store....I guess I just want to be where I was before the end came. Sounds like where you're at, too. Good luck to us both, getting past the felling of betrayal and finding a way to move on & be whole again.
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
I have insecurity issues and I think I sabotage my relationships. My wife of 9 years just told me that she loves me but is not in love with me. We have a 3 year old son. This just happened today and she doesnt think her feelings will change. We will have to live together for a while...
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Too Soon to Tell
- First appointment next week.
- Support from Friends & Family Too Soon to Tell
- Told my best friend. Not going to tell anyone else yet.
- Running Somewhat Helpful
- It helps clear my mind.
