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marisa123
Female, 30, bridegton, NJ
"we were always meant to say goodbye."
7:17am, September 12, 2009
Journal Entry for September 22, 2009 Mood
Tuesday, September 22, 2009

sometimes i really wander why i am with my bf. He is so ungrateful and just assumes i will do everything. we got mad at each other due to me making him take the leftovers to the dog. He was asked to do this 3 days ago and would not do it. so today he tells my son to go do it. I say no you were told to do it, you cant make him be the only one to take care of the dogs. They are not even ours.

 

so he got all pissy took one bowl out not the other two and then slamed the pot down when he got in and went intot he livin room to play a game on his phone, while i cook clean again and take care of the kids. I tell them go to your dad he is taking care of you while i cook, but like always no he doesnt.

 

I am so mad i could spit, i want to punch him in his face and freak out.

 

I want more from him and in 5 and a half years we are still dating he is still married to his ex.

God.

ugh

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  1. Adel1

    I still too young to be married, but shouldn't you have a sit down with him and make things clear for him? As how he is acting and his responsibilities in the house are. Make things clearer for him. I hope all goes well with you.


    Adel1

  2. mccloskey

    How long has he been this way? Have you considered asking yourself the question "Am I better off with him or without him?" There are times when just asking that question is painful. If the answer is yes, then try and explain how you feel to him. If the answer is no, then make plans to be on your own with your children. As hard as it is, they would probably agree with what ever your decission is. Remember, they are a big part of your life and should have a vote in how their mother is treated. Don't under estimate your children. They are yours for ever.... McCloskey


    mccloskey

  3. shazzca

    I totally agree with McCloskey...,
    Don't put up with the crap....! It sounds like ya man isn't respecting you very much and to still be married to another at the same time is not respecting you at all...! The kids will witness all that's going on as well and learn to not listen to you if you don't stand up for yourself.... You did years ago , so you can do it again right.?
    Take care and get firm.... Sharon xxx


    shazzca

  4. Chris1981

    Hi Marisa! :) our thoughts and prayers are with you all. wishing you all comfort, healing, and peace. we're so very sorry you all are going through a rough time. keep strong together, and hopefully things will improve. i'm going to say an extra prayer for you all. :) HUGS! :)


    Chris1981

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