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Trying my hand at a blog. www.mommypause.wordpress.com
Trying my hand at a blog. www.mommypause.wordpress.com
Our house is a case study for nature vs. nurture.
Yesterday, my daughter A turned 2. Where her the time has gone?
She is so much like me - always …
Motherhood vs. Menopause
Why am I so tired?A. The baby woke up 3 times last night.B. My new HRT protocol isn't working.C. All of the above.For …
Some pretty flowers to brighten your day and a note to say; YOU ARE A VERY SPECIAL AND IMPORTANT PERSON. Have a great day.
Robyn, she may have just needed to get away for a time after all look what she has had to go through. I have seen young ladies who were seemingly ok with giving their child up for adoption on the surface were going through a lot emotionally. I expect this is her way toget away for a time until the hurt and confusion settles down with in herself. Even with open relationships between the birth mom and the adoptive parents there is a lot of emotional garbage inside the birth mom that she alone has to deal with and she is afraid to talk about it. I would just accept she is trying to run away for a time to heal her broken spirit that she can not show others. She is a young person who needs a lot of love herself and some time to heal. there is a bond between her baby and her that was there befor birth and she is dealing with the loss. It is a form of grieving, she just had to run away for a time and I am sure she will turn back up she has finally got her emotions under control. Meantime keep in touch with grandma, and her other family members because she will go back to them and the pics will be there for her shen she is ready. I have three very pg girls here who are definately having to give their children up and I have been through this many times over the years as a foster/adoptive parent of troubled teens, and young moms and believe me it can be a rollercoaster of emotions for a birth mom. Been there myself as well. you are on the right track on having an open adoption and when she is over the emotional rollercoaster she will be back in touch and things will be smooth.
I just read ur entry on "adoption information". You have such a positive outlook on everything. THANKS !!! Yoy don't know how helpful you are.
I just read your response to open adoption. You have one of the most mature attitudes I've seen in quite awhile. As I read your answer I kept thinking what a mom she must be. Oh and menopause and motherhood together....you shouldn't be just tired...you should be comatose!! lol best of luck to you and your beautiful family....
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I am an adoptive parent.
I was diagnosed with POF at 31.
I have had 3 thyroidectomies.
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