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ChinookWife
Female, 23, Fort Campbell, KY
"Going back to Wisconsin in OCT!! Can't wait to see the familY!!!"
8:16pm, August 17, 2008
Journal Entry for August 16, 2008 Mood
Saturday, August 16, 2008
So here's the deal: There's Boyce and Nina. When i first moved down here they asked me to move in with them instead of staying in a hotel while me and my husband got a house to live in. They were super awesome friends and everything. I always helped them out when they needed it. I tried to stay in touch with nina (after the boys deployed) but she kept changing her number and i eventually lost track. I still occasionally talk to boyce online. I tried to stop by when he said he was home on mid tour and nina yelled at me telling me never to contact her husband again. I wasn't sure what was going on so a few days later i contacted her and asked her if we could talk because i wanted to be friends and didn't know why she was mad at me. All summed up she said that i was supposedly trying to seduce her husband and have sex with him. She also said that i supposedly called her trailer trash and a spic. I would NEVER call anyone a racist name. I continued to try to talk to her and she kept slamming me and calling me names and was not nice at all. I tried to make it clear i didn't want her husband. All that said and done i told her goodbye (being the bigger adult) and told her i hope she realized the repercussions of her actions will reap karma. Anyways i got an IM from Boyce today saying that i sent nina (his wife) a copy of a "supposed" conversation me and him had. In this message was a whole bunch of stuff about he should leave his wife for me etc. (which i never said) Nina went into his message archive, fabricated half of our messages then sent it back to Boyce claiming that i sent it to her to get him in trouble. Now she has sent it to my husband claiming that i had that conversation with her husband. Tonight is a disaster and if i ever see her again i seriously will forfeit a few nights in jail to get even with her....i'm sooooo pissed. I never did anything but be friends!!! I am having a panic attack over all this bull shi*!
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Comments

  1. dkimball

    What a mess! i am sorry that you are in the middle of this. I am sure that your husband will understand and you will have to move on from these "friends". It is no fun feeing like you ned to explain things to your husband when you have both been victimized.


    dkimball

  2. toddi

    Sorry you're in the middle of that mess. Definitely stay away from that Nina. She sounds really unstable.


    toddi

  3. leahanne

    my word!!! is she medicated?? if not, she sure as hell should be. what kind of a lunatic does that kind of thing??? i have no idea how to tell you to deal with this...it's one of those things that people are going to believe what they "want" to believe. ya know? i'm so sorry you are dealing with this! hang in there sweety...


    leahanne

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