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About Me
boyd52
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About Me
50-ish, victim of husband's mid-life crisis after 18 years, animal and plant and rock lover, non-smoker, recent transplant to Az. from St Louis Mo. Politically progressive.
50-ish, victim of husband's mid-life crisis after 18 years, animal and plant and rock lover, non-smoker, recent transplant to Az. from St Louis Mo. Politically progressive.
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Interests
Nature, beauty, people, travel, food, buildings, conservation, women's issues, Qi Gong, Tao, animals, plants , music, art film.....
Nature, beauty, people, travel, food, buildings, conservation, women's issues, Qi Gong, Tao, animals,
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Hugbook
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Oh *D*, so sorry to hear that you are down during the T-Day. Maybe the friends can lead hands to help out - but it is good that you are having company. So hope that you feel well soon, Meddle doesn't like to see Boydster sickly. Yes, all is very well here - new traditions on the plate this Thanksgiving.. hopefully better one's. Hot toddy in the box for stuffy headed friend...
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Hug
Hi ya Boydster - hope you have a great holiday... gobble, gobble....
Hug
I hope things are well in your life. I have missed you..Big hugs...
Little Love
I'm sorry, my girl. Much love and support, and hoping that feeling of being puny goes away. You're much too awesome for that!
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Little Love
Where you been, sugar? I miss my boydie!!!
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
I have been led on, deceived and then abandoned by a spouse I had adored. He has morphed into a lying thieving whore-jumping stranger with no compunctions about lying to me and using me any way he can. He has lost his moral compass and it is a horrible thing to see. I am heartbroken, trying to get past all the deception to see what I am really dealing with. Bottom line; he is scum now, whatever he may have been before, regardless of what he pretended to be. Good riddance.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- He withdrew from counseling when he feared his evident affair would be exposed. He is in counseling with the prostitute instead. Thoughtful and intelligent decision.
- Forgiveness Not Working
- He refuses to forgive for things in the past that I had NO idea he bore grudges about. That is convenient to excuse his adulterous departure in the marriage....as in: it's all MY fault. Yes. It mUST be mY fault he defrauded and abandoned me. Whatever.
- Love Not Working
- He is a narcissist like his very fucked up mother. It may not be possible to have a normal range of emotion or commitment. My suspicion is he is with the prostitute because she has the baseness he suddenly craves. Two soul-free whores together... does that make ONE real person?
- Pets Working / Worked
- They are my family and they receive a lot of attention and excellent care. Frankly, they don't miss him one bit, and as time passes.... SURPRISE!..... Neither do I!
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Very helpful.
- Reading Considering
- when I can concentrate, I will read.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- My friends, especially the ones he tried to drag into his ugly activities, have saved my life. Literally. And my new friends here are awesome.
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- DS has been a lifesaver.
- Time Working / Worked
- It could work faster, but it iS working.
- Lexapro Working / Worked
- godsend!
Open Dizziness & Vertigo
Dizzy for 9 years. It has effectively destroyed my life.
Treatments
- Epley Maneuver Working / Worked
- Vestibular Exercises Working / Worked
Open DailyStrength Members Community
Not right now, sorry.....
Open Loneliness
I have been abandoned by my husband, am still very traumatized and am isolated.
Treatments
- Lexapro Working / Worked
- Godsend!
