Hi today I'm trying to find some …
Hi today I'm trying to find some help to take my mind off my back pain. I currently take enough pain medication that …
Well, that's it. I'm TOTALLY done with my parents. Not only does dumbass Dad ignore me, now Mom says she has to have something to do in order to be able to get up, so she's having Dad take her to the bank and Target tomorrow. I was like, 'well you could get up and help ME with something!"
I'm SO done...outta here as soon as I can this time, regardless of if I'm broke or not. I'm ASHAMED to have these people as parents.
Hi today I'm trying to find some help to take my mind off my back pain. I currently take enough pain medication that …
hi this is one off my worst days in three years i hurt so bad to day i had seek out some one to talk to .
It's Wednesday, two days after Christmas. I'm going to give work a try today. So far I haven't had much pain today, …
I'm sorry things are not going well with your folks. I know the living situation has to be uncomfortable with you moving in with them due to your illness. What will it take for you to be able to move out on your own? Has your health improved enough to do so? Maybe if you created a list of everything that you would need to do to move out, prioritized that list, and began working on some of the items, that would provide you with some comfrt in moving towards that goal?
In the meantime, please remember that one of the ten commandments are to "honor your parents". Now, I'm not defending them for the things they either do or don't do, but maybe there are some circumstances in their lives that make them who they are? Thus, I guess I would just recommend accepting them for who they are...faults and all...and focus on how you can get out on your own again.
getfuzzy
It would be hard for me to live my folks too. They are of the oppinion that you should ignore it and it will go away. I LOOK healthy enough-except for the fact that I have gotten so thin. They think I'm starving myself-which I am not. If they can't see the health problems they must be in my head. It's hard. Luckily, I am able to keep my distance and only tell them as little as possible. Having your own place might make you feel more positive. I like the idea of creating a list of goals and priorities and then working toward them.
Take care!
sooverit