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fatallove 
5:09pm, June 20, 2009
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About Me
fatallove
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About Me
Mother of 3 young children. I was with my husband for 21 years when he decided he wanted a different lifestyle and left. His new lifestyle includes another woman I suspect may have been an influencing factor in his decision to leave. We were divorced as of March.
Mother of 3 young children. I was with my husband for 21 years when he decided he wanted a different lifestyle and left. His new lifestyle includes another woman I suspect may have been an influencing factor in his decision to leave. We were divorced as of March.
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Little Love
Sending some love your way. You're a trooper! You'll make it! = )
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Just a hug to let you know you're thought of. I hope things are getting a little bit easier hopefully. Thinking about you and the kids as the school year is getting off to a start.
Get Well Soon!
im sorry that you are in so much pain and suffering so much, hun.
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im here for you, if you need someone to listen
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Lots of Love and Hugs!
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Married 22 years to a man I would have given my life for. 9 months ago he unexpectedly left. I was 3 months pregnant with his 3rd child. He denies it but there is another woman, originally a friend of mine. I was completely unaware that he was not happy in the marriage although now he says he hasn't been happy for the past 10 years or more. He has made and done cruel things since he left and I'm reeling. I'm totally devastated and trying to find a way to get through the day.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Too Soon to Tell
- Personal therapy once a week. Doesn't seem to be helping.
- Reading Not Working
- Immediately after husband left, I went on an obsessive reading binge about divorce, reconciliation, affairs, moving on... i was looking for answers that weren't in any books. Still have the books but can't even read them anymore without having a panic attack.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Worked, but I feel like a burden to them
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- Was admitted to psych facility for a couple of weeks and then went into and intensive outpatient therapy program. It probably saved my life but I'm no longer in the program and still dealing with even harder issues.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Talking with friends, family and therapists. Sometimes makes me feel better and sometimes worse.
- Time Not Working
- Time is meaningless to me now
- Plendil Somewhat Helpful
- Battling depression and am on lots of medications which are somewhat helpful
Close Migraine Headaches
Migraines started in early 20s infrequent at that time, got pregnant and they came every day for months! Again after pregnancy I would have them in clusters, nothing for awhile and then several for several days.
Treatments
- Aspirin Working / Worked
- hardly
- Caffeine Working / Worked
- only worked with mild ones caught early
- Excedrin Working / Worked
- mildly
- Imitrex Working / Worked
- Injections.. not fun but worked. Side effect of face burning lasted a few minutes and was gone,
- Midrin Working / Worked
- tried
- Naproxen Working / Worked
- ineffective
- Relpax Working / Worked
- worked for mild migraines
- Topamax Working / Worked
- tried
- Tylenol Working / Worked
- nothing
- Zomig Working / Worked
- tried
- Promethazine Working / Worked
- Phenergan takes the nausea away and helps me fall asleep.
Open Depression
Type: Clinical (Major) DepressionDepressed for about 10 years. Recent situational depression with pending divorce.
Treatments
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Working / Worked
- helped a lot
- Effexor Working / Worked
- just started, okay so far
- Meditation Working / Worked
- works well
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- sometimes
- Prozac Working / Worked
- On it for years, never felt like it did anything
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- in therapy now too early to tell if working or not
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Definitely working
- Trazodone Working / Worked
- boost evects of some meds and helps with insomnia
- Wellbutrin Working / Worked
- okay
- Writing Working / Worked
- helps
Open Anxiety
Husband left me while I was pregnant with his 3rd child. Anxiety started then
Treatments
- Ativan Working / Worked
- mildly
- Breathing Exercises Working / Worked
- sometimes
- Breathwork Working / Worked
- sometimes
- BuSpar Working / Worked
- okay
- Meditation Working / Worked
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- sometimes
Open Child Support & Custody
Getting divorce after 21 year relationship. 3 children, 11, 7, 5 months. STBX emotionally involved with another woman and left me when I was 3 months pregnant. We share custody of 2 older kids but he's not very involved with baby. The divorce is bitter and we do not agree on much other than we seem to enjoy torturing each other! I feel there are a lot of unfinished issues but he is not very interested in resolving them. Children caught right in the middle.
Open Insomnia
Been insomniac since grade school. Trouble falling asleep and then staying asleep. Have been on meds for years.
Treatments
- Ambien Working / Worked
- Works most of the time but the side effects are horrible. I get the amnesia and middle of the night snacking. Not to mention I act like an idiot if I don't go right to bed after taking them.
- Ativan Not Working
- Use it for anxiety. Does not make me sleepy much less put me to sleep
- Counting Sheep Not Working
- What a joke!
- Meditation Working / Worked
- Helps.
- Music Working / Worked
- Helps relax. Also use meditation for sleep CDs. They help most of the time but I'm on meds with them too so I don't know if it would work well by itself
- Reading Working / Worked
- Can't even think about sleeping without reading. Usually read as I wait for meds to take effect.
- Trazodone Somewhat Helpful
- Side effect of strange taste in my mouth anytime I ate or drank something for most of next day.
- Valerian Not Working
