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Friday, November 13, 2009
Hi everyone sorry i havent been on much.  I just try to stay busy and my job makes sure that i do. I hope i can stay intouch with everyone here at DS.  I sure miss everyone.  Hugs, Norma
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Hi everyone sorry i havent been on in awhile. Mood
Friday, August 7, 2009 | A Sad story

Hello everyone sorry i havent been on in awhile.  I have thought about everyone of you here on DS.  I have been going thru some rough spots.  Well for starters the new job is going well it keeps me busy.  But the sad part is that I have a good friend that i meet about a month and a half ago and we have been haning out and keeping each other company.  Well this week he found out that he has cancer  and that its is spreading.  It was very hard for me to hear that from him.  He told me that i could walk away from our friendship if i wanted to.  He would understand if i did walk away.  he didnt want to put me thru what i went with Mark all over again. 

 

Its a hard decision to make i have been thinking about this and either way I am going to be sad.  If  i have decided to stick by him thru it all.  If i walked away i would feel worse knowing he was sick and that i wasnt there for him.  But then i will feel bad seeing him suffer thru the process of the whole cancer thing.  So I'm still in shock but i have decided that i want to be near him and give him the support he will need.   well i leave you all and i will keep everyone updated.  Hugs to everyone and your in my thoughts and prayers. 

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  1. lindeS

    Hi Normaa. They say God puts us where need to be. Bless your heart. Is there any hope for him? I still have not made any guy friends yet. Would like to, tho. Treasure the time you have. Let us know Linde


    lindeS

  2. normaa

    They said that probably not it has spread to far already. I never imaged this happening again. we are close friends i just dont know what to think.


    normaa

  3. Loriluvsbruce

    Oh Norma that is so sad. I think you have made the right decision to be there for him though. I know it will be hard for you but you might regret not doing it. My prayers are with you, Lori


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  4. laurahp

    Norma, I will be praying for you and your friend. I cant even imagine how hard this is for you. You are a very strong lady. I admire you for your decision to stick by your friend. Keep us up to date. Always in my prayers ,Laura


    laurahp

  5. mbrieck2003

    Norma...I do not know you as I am new here. I lost my fiancee on July 09, 2009. Cancer took Bobbye. It was everywhere..her pancreas, biliary tract, liver, abdomen....It's terrible and sad. I am still trying to process the fact that she is no longer here. I am so sorry that your friend is doing poorly. There are no words. I have sworn that I would never be involved with someone again because I am scared that if I did something would happen to them like what happened to Bobbye. I don't think I could ever go through that again. God Bless you. If you ever feel like talking please feel free to email me at mbrieck2003@yahoo.com

    --Mike


    mbrieck2003

Journal Entry for April 24, 2009 Mood
Friday, April 24, 2009

Thank you everyone i still have bad days but i know that my journey is still to move forward . i still have lot to over come.  but little by little i am moving forward. i think the new job was my start.  i really got depressed in February with Marks anniversay of one year and a month laterlosing a friend in a bad motorcycle accident. 

 

I think you all often and keep in my thoughts and prayers.  hugs, for everyone 

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  1. lindeS

    Hi Norma. Good pix of you and your family. I need to learn how to add photos, etc. I have been having a hard time off and on. Since my retirement i have
    spent 7 days in mental health facility. I am working hard on staying healthy. Know Jimmys anniversary is coming May 20. Hope I have already had a bad time with the bipolar I struggle with.
    Remember that you were my first writing buddy on here. That means alot. Sorry to hear about your riding buddys accident. You know Jimmy wanted to ride more than anything, but I am afraid he would have been in danger. His open heart surgery got him.
    But, boy he loved that Harley.
    Lindy


    lindeS


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