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sadgmother 
2:12am, September 29, 2009
When do u now that u are happy or sad i'm haapy that we r going to have a granddaughter but i'm still sad that she is gone somebody tell me how to feel
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I can't tell you how to feel yet what I think is important is that you are feeling. Knowing that each feeling is as it needs to be no matter how uncomfortable, comforting, confusing or just plain scary just needs to be okay... I was told by a wise soul just to lean into them all and that they too will pass. Sending you a hug today and lots of understanding. Your friend, Joanie
Livingjuicy
The unfortunate part of this journey is there is no wrong or right and no book that gives us clear cut directions on how or not to feel. It's so unique to each of us but I'm sure you are feeling all sorts of emotions and they will fluctuate often. Learn to get through the sad times and enjoy the good times when they come. The pain will lessen ever so slowly as you learn about yourself and how to handle each emotion and situation. Hang in there. Much love. Robin
Robin4
I want to thank you for the letters I thank you and joanie you have it right but sometimes it not real but the pain will never go away i love her and miss her everyday and i dont want to be without her i miss you jenny
sadgmother