Tesla's Journal

It seems none of my friends are on here when I most need them!!  I am so sad right now....my husband had a huge blow up with my daughter, 19, over not doing her fair share of responsibilities around here, which is a valid point, but he has no idean how to go about it.   In summary, they both yelled at each other and he kicked a huge hole in her bedroom door, she left for the night to stay at her boyfriend's house and I am out here working.   I am so, so sick of this...........I have no idea what to do.   I texted her and told her how much I love her and basically apologized for him.    I am just so sick of all of this after so man years.    My kids have had to deal with a dad who is not anywhere close to a good dad and I try to make up for it.  I bend over way to far in the opposite direction.    I have no answer.  I want my kids to be happy, but they hate their dad.   I feel this is my fault. I chose their dad.  I could not give them a wonderful dad.  I failed.   It is way too late to undue the damage, they are 19 and 22.    I knew when they were babies.  He is a good man and loves them, but has no idea how to deal with them or me.   My job is in question every day  and things going wrong with the house...the shower, the hot tub, the frig......i have to deal with all of this and i am at a breaking point.......