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  mamalove (04/19/08)

  Hey,how are you? Your a strng woman.
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  joyfulnoise (10/03/07)

  Sending you warm thoughts, kind wishes, some sunshine and joy. Also included are some smiles, a giggle, a moment without pain, and a hug! All my best to you on this day!
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  mamalove (09/28/07)

  Wow ! If you can understand me thats amazing,lol.Please clue me in,lol. I would love to talk to you.I feel we have much in common.
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  butterflys (09/11/07)

  thanks for your prayers. it is really hard because i love him so much, and no he is not a christian. he had a hard life when he was younger and with everything going on with the family now he just doesn't believe. i sometimes can't blame him. i wonder to, but deep in my heart i know God is there. i sometimes think hes the only one there for me! thanks again lots of hugs
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  butterflys (04/11/07)

  thanks missinglove, i guess i just feel that im complaining to much because i don't have anyone to talk to at home and when i come here i feel well you guys have your own proplems and concerns just shut up. nobody wants to hear it. i guess i just have been dealing with it in silence for so long i feel weird talking about it. sorry for any miss spelled words my spelling isn.t what it uses to be. april
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  yachmene (04/04/07)
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  yachmene (03/05/07)

  About 3 years into my marriage I felt the same way. I think part of it was due to keeping the MS to myself and trying not to complain. He didn't understand my limitations and I could not explane them. We were just not comunicating well at all and it continued until I cried out to God for help. I love my husband. He is awesome and caring. But, it was just not enough. My husband and I ended up going to a couples weekend sponsered by family life. I can not tell you how much of a difference this has made in our lives we fell in love all over again. We have now been married 11 years and communication is great. One really good book that helped us is the 5 languages of love. And there is a website at familylife.com that has a lot of resorces. I hope I am not overwhelming you with suggestions or anything I just know how you feel. I've been there.
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  denita (03/04/07)

  Now this is the truth Missinglove: When pain comes, people either face it head on or put in down on the inside of them and without knowing it we carry this pain with us day after day. Some people don't even allow themselves to feel their pain until years later but all along the way that pain is affecting their daily lives. As a child I had gone through a tremendous amount of pain for several years. It was so dreadful I couldn't even remember it had even happened. Then at the age of 18, I accepted Jesus as my personal Savior. I asked God to give me a new life because I didn't like mine at all. It was just all messed up and I wasn't happy. So the first thing that God began to go after in my life was my pain. I didn't know I had any. I would laugh a lot and tell every jokes and drink wine in order to stay happy. I lived like that until I was near 30. Then God brought me to a lady who was very filled with faith and knew God personally. She had a tremendous amount of insight and she said told me, "You are filled with so much sorrow". I said, "No I'm not! I'm a happy person. I'm the one one who makes everyone else laugh". She said, "Can I pray for you". I said, "OK". She asked God to draw that pain up and out and then she told me, "When God does this for you, you will most likely be crying for about two weeks or so. In fact I had better let your parents know about it or they might worry too much." So she called them and told them that she had prayed for me and this is what was going to happen and after I cried, I would be able to be truly happy in my heart. Well, everything she said came to pass. I faced my pain but I am glad that I was able to face it With God and not by myself. He brought me out of all that pain and afterwards I became so clean inside and free from sorrow. Jesus truly set me free. I am so thankful that there are people who can see what God sees and also have His heart. God can heal you too. In fact I'll give you His promise right now: "The Lord is near them that have a broken heart; and saves them who are humble." Ps. 34 And another promise (there are so many; you just pick the one you need) "He heals the broken in heart; and binds up their wounds" Ps. 147 You see missinglove, even though you don't have your dad, you can still have God and His love for you which is in fact, even greater than any person could ever know or love you because God created you in his Mind even before he placed you in your mother's womb. He has a great plan for your life and you must come to understand how He wants you to live for Him. You will see Him yourself; for it is appointed for once a man to die and then the judgement. So allow God to heal you and then set your heart to knowing Him; the author and finisher of your faith. denita (see my page) I also wrote a book you can have if you want it. denita