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KerriLynn 
Today was an actually interesting day! My husband and I went to our counseler and that I think was the most eye opening for my hubby. He asked me to go to his appt to try and prove to me that I am a wrong in every aspect of our life. However it back fired at him. He is not working right now and hasnt been for the last 4 months so I am the one footing all the bills. I work my bum off at work and at home to make everything run smoothly and still to him it does not matter. H wants one of those wives that do everything for their husband and i just am not that. I am too opinionated and to strong willed. Well anyway he was complaining that i dont have the house spotless everyday like his mommy used to. Bruce which is our doc asked him whether his mom worked while she did all this. My hubby answers well no but that doesnt mean She cant do it all. That made my doc furious because he is treating me more like his slave than his wife. He makes it hard for me to function through out the day because of all his crap. I dont know what to do with him anymore. Through all of this I am trying to get a business started and it is complicating everything. The business could bring lots of money in and it feels as though he is trying to ruin any chances i have of getting it started. He acts like one of my children instead of an adult most of the time I cant stand it any more.
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Funny that kinda sounds like my husband. My husband has always provided for the family but I work full time too. He would be soo critical of my housekeeping especially the last 2 yrs. I told him I can quit work and be a full time mom but he said, oh no you don't have to do that. So I told him you can't have it all. Now that he is gone I don't have to walk on eggshells anymore. I feel for ya.
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