not sure what to write
November 13, 2009 1:26pm
Haven't been here much in a while. I guess I haven't felt much like socializing! I've been going through a period in my life where I just …
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dbain
3:28pm, July 22, 2009
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About Me
dbain
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About Me
I love animals. I have 2 dogs, 1 cat and 3 horses.
I love animals. I have 2 dogs, 1 cat and 3 horses.
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8 hugs received, 3 hugs given, 1 journal comment
Friday
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dbain gave wallyw44 a hug 12:03pm
Thank you. I love the picture of the two of you. I'm a nature nut and I love the foilage behind you!…
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Monday
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dbain gave tootired54 a hug 2:22pm
Hey Tim, As always good to hear from you. I think the holidays is making this really really hard. I'm…
November 13
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dbain wrote a journal entry: not sure what to write 1:26pm
Haven't been here much in a while. I guess I haven't felt much like socializing! I've been…
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dbain gave tootired54 a hug 1:09pm
Hey Tim, How's things with you? I've not been on here much lately. I just drop in every now and then.…
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Can't get it out of my head
January 9, 2009 3:50pm
Everytime I shut my eyes to go to sleep I relive that night. I didn't see him afterwards until the funeral home but I imagine it everytime I shut …
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Missing my son
January 6, 2009 11:34am
I miss my son so much. The showing is today and the funeral tomorrow morning. I just find myself lost today. I walk around with no purpose. My …
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My Son
January 4, 2009 11:50am
I joined DS because my husband had an accident and I needed others who have been through the loss of a spouse. My son has carried the guilt that he …
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Flower
JUST BECAUSE! SEND YOU A BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS JUST FOR YOU.
LOVE YOU, LUCI-
High Five
Hi! Yes a LOT of wonderful wildlife here in the Rockies! We are trying to load up our Oregon trip photos too, but it is hard on DS! God Bless! Colleen and Wally
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Prayer
Hi there! Thank you for joining "simply prayer". We are all here for you! We hope we can be friends! God Bless you! Wally and Colleen. By the way, we have three nice (most of the time!) kitties, we love a lot!
See You Later
miss yoU..!
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Hi Debbie, Thanks for staying in touch. I have decided there is no easy was thru the pain of loss. I still miss my son daily, and will have a fleeting thought about him and just start weeping. This Christmas will be very hard for me. I am going to have to find some diversions to keep my mind off of his passing until the holidays are over. I hope things will get better for both of us. It's one day at a time for both of us. Tim
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Support Groups
Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseI lost my husband a year ago due to a tragic accident. He was cutting a tree on our property and it landed on him. He had multiple internal injuries. This happened on Mar. 18,2007 and he died on April 24,2007. I was at the hospital the entire time, almost 6 weeks. I didn't want to go home without him! We were married 27 years and together for 30. We did everything together. I am finding it hard to move forward without him so I found myself here. On Jan. 4, 2009 my son commited suicide.
Treatments
- Crying Working / Worked
- Crying helps. I cry alot.
- Keeping Busy Working / Worked
- I have a small farm and have found it to be very helpful.
- Pets Working / Worked
- I have 2 dogs, a cat, and 3 horses. They are all good therapy!
- Prayer Working / Worked
- Sometimes I think my faith is all that keeps me going.
- Reading Working / Worked
- I read alot of spiritual books. Reading keeps me from thinking.
- Remembering Working / Worked
- I talk about Nathan to whoever will listen.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- I have lots of support but no one that has gone through this.
Close Widows & Widowers
I lost my husband a year ago 4/24 due to a tree cutting accident. He had multiple inernal injuries and was in the hospital for 6 weeks before he died. I stayed with him the entire time. I was determined not to come home without him! It's been the hardest year of my life! My family and friends have been great but they have no idea what I'm going through so I found myself here.
Open Families & Friends Affected By Suicide
I joined DS because my husband had an accident and I needed others who have been through the loss of a spouse. My son has carried the guilt that he caused the accident. We all thought he was doing so much better and last night he shot and killed himself. He was only 28 years old, married with a 1 year old daughter.
