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I think things are going a little better for me. Everything has been quiet lately, no secret meetings taking place, no secret phone calls or text messages that I know of. I'm kind of confused as to what might be going on, I don't know if the lying and such is over, or what. He's been really good to me lately, affectionate, like giving me hugs out of nowhere or kissing me on the forehead as he walks by or when I'm doing dishes or something. He's still wonderful with the kids. I'm not sure if he's decided this is where he wants to be, or if something is up. Has anyone experienced this? If so what did it mean for you?
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I feel so helpless. My life for the past 5 years has been such a roller coaster and I feel like I can't support my sons like they need. I keep moving them around to be near jobs, now we've moved clear out of state. I was thinking this was the best thing to happen for us, then my fiancee got on the internet again....I want my children to have a stable home. Is that even possible? Would I be wrong to move them again? Do I stick it out? I feel awful and jittery and I'm quite sure that isn't healthy for a woman who is 5 mos. pregnant...
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YOUR IN A TOUGH SPOT RIGHT NOW.YOU MUST DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND THE KIDS.THAT SHPULD BE THE PRIORITY NOT YOUR FIANCEE.IF YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM WHAT KIND OF LIFE WILL YOU HAVE.SOME TIMES WE NEED TO LOOK AT THE WHOLE PICTURE AND NOT JUST THE MOMENT AT HAND.I CAN SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE ON THIS.MY FIRST SUGGESTION IS OPEN YOUR HEART TO GOD AND LET HIM DO WHAT HE DOES BEST,CARE FOR YOUR NEEDS.THIS IS A WONDERFUL PLACE FOR SUPPORT.IF YOU NEED ANYTHING GIVE ME A SHOUT.MY WIFE IS ALSO ON THIS SIGHT,SHE IS scooby22,SHE HAS WONDERFUL INSIGHT AND CAN BE A BLESSING TO YOU.
For me the fear never seems to go away. Mine is acting the same way. Even though I want to believe he is being real and truthful...I just have a movie that plays in my head every day! I just am not able to trust and it is killing me. Hang in there though. We are trying to make it work as well...and if you want it to work and never want to say what if...I guess we have to just be strong. I am here for you if you want to talk! xo Rebecca
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