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LongieWithCrohns 
I had been suspecting something was a little off lately when, my off-again, on-again girlfriend wasn't responding to those messages (usually just through text messages). So yeah... took two tylenol PM's last night to help me sleep (as my mind was racing again... no surprise there)... and I woke up to a 'break-up e-mail' waiting for me... so that's it. It hurts. I've been through these things before, and it always hard to get over... it takes time... I just need to give it time. Hopefully with my work (on call, kinda), I will work tomorrow and I can get a ride with my mom back to Idyllwild (in the mountains) for a week or so to just refocus and center myself. "she" claims it is hurting her too.... and her reasons were mentioned in the e-mail (mainly that she's busy with work, school, family)....
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Ouch. Girls ARE evil...just like you said...If you ever want to talk I am here. Also, I think your secret therapy is working! Genius! Any girl should be lucky enough to be with you. Also, you don't need a chick to be happy!
trivera9
i am sorry, I think it is crummy that she did it by email and not in person(IMO) .. i think that focusing on you and spending some time in the mountains could be a good think tank and help you to refocus on YOU...you will find happiness within you and you really do deserve someone who values the kind of great man your really are...HUGS!
nikanika2005
Ya know... this one time I met a guy and we had been out on a few dates, I felt it was time to tell him about my UC (before he found out the ugly way). His response was, "I have to think about this... I've never dated anyone that was sick before." HA! anyway, her letter kinda reminded me of that.
That blows that this was an e-mail and not a convo. Super-lame, but it sounds like you both have been through a lot. Let the mountains hear you roar!
4runnerswing
Thanks Girls... for your words and support. Since my work schedule isn't very steady... I might be working tomorrow, most likely at night.... and I can still catch that ride up the mountains with my mom on Sunday. She's coming back the following Friday.... so that will be some good time 'away'. Again... Thanks!
LongieWithCrohns
Sometimes I hate being a girl; my species can be so cruel! i hope you get to relax and I wish you the best.
Akie
sounds rough man. you never know what's around the corner. were all rooting for you here and think you can find a wonderful gal whom it will work out with if the timing is right.
TedE