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  Well Done
  

  Laura6221024 (04/29/09)

  Wow, congrats on your 40lbs loss. I am with you, it is hard to stay motivated, I am in the middle of that now and I haven't lost anything, I still have a long way to go. Could you give me some ideas of what you were and weren't eating?
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  pusqualie (01/18/09)

  Great job on your Goal to loose weight! It gives me the push I need to focus on eating healthy and working out! Way to go! Thank you!
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  pusqualie (12/22/08)

  Know that we all love and support you! Remember that your kids and husband love you and are there for you too! Sending you the gift of love! Love is but a four letter word and holds so much healing in first seeing the love others have for you, second learning to love yourself just the way you are, and third loving others by loving yourself first. Love you!
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  LeanneK (12/09/08)

  Just wanting to send hugs your way. I know the holidays can be hard especially when it is a time to get together with family and when they are the ones who wounded you it is tough. So I hope you are able to be gentle with yourself. Take care!
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  dee3314 (12/08/08)

  I'm happy you're taking steps towards healing :-D Monica
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  AZVegan (12/08/08)

  Very Wise, Thanks, I will tell myself that, Who is really mad at me...I made hot chocolate and there was left overs and I felt like i was in so much trouble, and started to cry and realized, like you said, That's from my mom, I don't care if some goes to waste, it's OK, Or when getting butter on a knife, scared i'll mess up the butter, or put a crumb in it, I'm scared like this all the time and just starting to realize it now, and you are right, I have to ask myself Where is this coming from, who cares if the butter is messed up, or if I waste a little food on accident. Whew..
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  AZVegan (12/08/08)

  Wow thanks I was worried you would be mad at me for saying that I d K why, I always feel like people will be mad at me for everything, just an old pattern i have to change i think. But thanks, I love my therapist, he tells me profound things and changes my life and way of thinking. I am so grateful to him.
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  AZVegan (12/08/08)

  I agree, it is hard to trust, start where you are, you have a loving family, That great!! that's a step ahead of most people. And my therapist told me something when I told him I don't trust him and other people, He said " It's not me you have to trust" he said I have to only trust myself, trust myself to put myself into good situations, and trust myself to leave if I want, and trust myself to not let someone hurt me. That opened up a door for me, to focus on trusting myself, and to be able to stand in front of any man, and trust myself to do what's best for me, not him, I don't have to trust him. Anyway, that's what he told me. I know the holidays can be a readjustment after we realize we don't want our first family around. Hugs to you mY friend =)
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  AZVegan (12/08/08)

  Hugs Dreamer, You are doing what's best for you, I know it hurts that we don't have kind parents, but we didn't do that, and now we have to take care of ourselves and get support and love from the New family that we create. I'm with you though, i can definatly relate.
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  I'm With You
  

  Borgnine (12/03/08)

  Have compassion for yourself, and I know you will win your battle with your weight--I was very moved by your story.

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