why can't I move on
October 30, 2008 11:39pm
It's been a long time since I wrote anything. I have been trying to avoid this site as it tends to be a trigger for me. I have had my wonderful …
nichole5
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About Me
nichole5
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About Me
I am 33 years old with 2 young daugthers and am 6 months pregnant with our son. I just found out my husband has been having an affair with someone he works with. I am devestated. I think I would kick him out of the house if I wasn't pregnant and needing the help. I have agreed to work on our marriage, but quite honestly I am hopeless right now.
I am 33 years old with 2 young daugthers and am 6 months pregnant with our son. I just found out my husband has been having an affair with someone he works with. I am devestated. I think I would kick him out of the house if I wasn't pregnant and needing the help. I have agreed to work on our marriage, but quite honestly I am hopeless right now.
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Interests
spending time with my family and friends, being outdoors and exercising.
spending time with my family and friends, being outdoors and exercising.
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Recent Activity
November 7
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nichole5 wrote a discussion post in the Infidelity support group: spyware? 3:55pm
does anyone know of or has used any type of spyware/ keylogging program on the computer. how do they…
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self esteem
June 7, 2008 11:59pm
I am starting to relaize my husband is very good at blaming me for all his problems. he is such an asshole. I don't even know why I put up with …
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Journal Entry for May 30, 2008
May 30, 2008 4:29am
will anything ever feel the same again? my H is truly trying to "do" all the right things, but he is having a hard time saying the right …
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rollercoaster
April 26, 2008 10:45pm
I am so tired of feeling depressed. Deep down I know he does not control my happiness. I am in charge of my own life and the direction it takes. I …
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Close Infidelity
I am six months pregnant with our 3rd child and just found out my H is having an affair with someone he works with. he says they had been friends for 2 years and then trials at work caused them to have to work closely together and for much of a part of the day. They started talking outside work and then developed a relationship which turned sexual. I don't know all the details yet and am not sure I want to know. right now we are committed to making our marriage better but I am still devestated.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- It is helping us have difficult conversations on safe territory and helping my H understand how I am feeling without making me feel he is not listening.
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- I am commited to trying to forgive and have compassion for him. this seems to help anger not be the only emotion I am having
