Getting Separated part 2
May 19, 2008 5:42pm
Ok....so this weekend wasn't ALL bad. Saturday came and went rather quickly. Late Saturday night, she texted me again, but I left it until Sunday …
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About Me
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About Me
Been married for 24 years, 3 children age 20-18-16, 2 grandsons age 17 months. Been through a lot in the last year. Yes, I cheated, more than once. Only have admitted one to the W.
Been married for 24 years, 3 children age 20-18-16, 2 grandsons age 17 months. Been through a lot in the last year. Yes, I cheated, more than once. Only have admitted one to the W.
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Interests
Love to Golf, but up for just about anything outdoors or in.
Love to Golf, but up for just about anything outdoors or in.
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Getting Separated
May 16, 2008 11:38am
Well, the counseling has proven to be a bit of a misfire. Rather than focusing on what we were asked to think about for the week, the W has chosen to …
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Counseling round 1
May 13, 2008 5:49pm
Well we both went to counseling last night, in separate vehicles. It did not go all that well. The counselor asked where we thought we were in regard …
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Blackened Waters
May 12, 2008 10:11am
Well..not sure what to make of yesterday. Started rough and finished rougher. Helped my sons (16 n 18) get a few things ready to give to their mom in …
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To NOT say I Love You
May 11, 2008 11:40am
I've been thinking and reading alot lately, as well as writing quite a bit down. I decided on Thursday that I just couldn't keep saying …
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Happy Birthday!!! Glad to see you back and can't wait to hear how it's been going for you. Fill us in already! :)
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Ok, I read your post. I see what's happened. First, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! A spouse should never forget that, and I'm sorry yours did. Write more, tell us how we can help.
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hevy, what happened?
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So, you making any progress or any news?
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How are things going? Haven't heard from you in weeks.
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Close Breakups & Divorce
I no longer about to end a 24 year marriage. I crossed the line last fall with a friend of 3 yrs. Been having problems for last 10 yrs. Bottom line, I cheated, I lied, I am the one who made the wrong choice and did the wrong thing. I care deeply for wife...but don't believe I love her anymore. I told her of OW and affair and she said she wasn't going to be hard on me or bitch a lot about it. She's been trying very hard to be close to me and i am starting to feel it from my side.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- Just started.
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- How much can friends really help? Every relationship is different as is every situation.
- Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
- still digging thru the posts.
- Talking Too Soon to Tell
- Always ends up as same old argument as we've had last 10 years.
Close Infidelity
I cheated on my loving wife. We've been together for 26 yrs, 24 of em married this month (28th). My affair was with a woman who has been my good friend for the last 3 yrs and in October last fall, it spilled over and kept going. My W and I have had issues and problems for a long time and I've considered leaving her for the last 10 yrs. I told her in March of my affair. I agreed to stay and try to salvage what we have, but its not working What do I do?
Treatments
- Forgiveness Not Working
- she's trying so hard to be understanding and caring, but I still feel like i'm living a lie.
- Leave Considering
- I am about to tell her on Sunday that I don't want to be there anymore. That I care about her, but don't feel that I love her anymore. I've lied, cheated, hurt her (not physically) and it's ruined my feelings for her. She's a good woman and deserves a lot more respect and love than I've shown. and yes, I cheated more than once and I'm not proud of it at all.
Open Female Sexual Issues
Married for 24 years. She has multiple health issues and it seems that almost anything sexual becomes painful to her. I'm at a loss as to what to do.
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