My letter to him
July 17, 2009 1:19pm
I’m writing you this letter because I have a hard time talking to you in person about my feelings. I am so overwhelmed and emotionally …
lovespets
8:00pm, July 6, 2009
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About Me
lovespets
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About Me
Im a paramedic working nights, I have 2 dogs, 6 cats, and one bunny. I left my abusive husband after 3 miserable years together and it was the hardest thing I ever did. I'm really happy now, more than I've ever been.
Im a paramedic working nights, I have 2 dogs, 6 cats, and one bunny. I left my abusive husband after 3 miserable years together and it was the hardest thing I ever did. I'm really happy now, more than I've ever been.
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Interests
Running, cooking, pets, home improvement, reading, painting.
Running, cooking, pets, home improvement, reading, painting.
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very sad
July 17, 2009 1:11pm
I just can't get it right in my mind. The way he treated me was wrong, it was wrong and it was not my fault. I was not perfect and …
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Repeated phrases
July 14, 2009 11:12pm
I remember the things I said so many times, over and over for 3 1/2 years.
-My feelings are important
-you don't have to agree with me …
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character traits
July 14, 2009 6:09pm
Nobody is a perfect spouse right out of the box. Marriage is a permanent commitment that takes work, like your career, or raising kids …
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e-mail
July 14, 2009 11:45am
He sent me an e-mail last night. Just talking like friends, telling me about his life etc. He said he heard our song playing, the one I …
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Hugbook
Hug
have a wonderful and safe holiday.
I’m With You
I love cats too :)
Moment of Peace
6 cats....I have 7 of them myself! wouldnt have it any other way!
Hug
Thanks :-) My cat is saving me at the moment, so I understand what you mean. Hope you have a good day too.
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Rainbow
Hi. Hope you're well. I just wanted to say I love your avatar - your cat is gorgeous. I have 2 dogs, one cat and 2 hamsters. Check out my photos if you'd like to see them.
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Close Physical & Emotional Abuse
My husband of 2 years has been emotionally and physically abusive for our entire relationship. I knew in my gut something was not right with him but chose to ignore it. He had me convinced that it was me and I was responsible for his actions. He is also an alcoholic and last Sun night got drunk and stangled me so bad I could not breath or speak. I struggle with feelings of guilt and self-doubt. I realize I love the man I wished he was. I can't believe this happened to me.
Treatments
- Divorce Considering
- have made up my mind but haven't filed. I'm very afraid.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Been in counseling 2 years, really helps to vent to someone when you feel ashamed to talk to friends or family.
Close Breakups & Divorce
My husband and I have been married 2 years. He has been emotionally and physcially abusive. I know in my heart I should leave him for good. He has moved out and is being so mean and hurtful. I'm just scared to be alone.
