I think I really like this job
September 3, 2009 7:35pm
Hey all havn't written in awhile have been busy with work and by the time I come home and cook just to tired. This has been a really good week …
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bobdum
7:50pm, August 22, 2009
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About Me
bobdum
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About Me
I am Bobdum's wife this profile is his in his words and that I will leave alone self employed married 4 grow children 6 grand childern liked to travel just found out about 2 brain toumors 1 on or very near the brain stem, also found Pancris tumor. Survied lung cancer with left lung completly removed 4 years ago did chemo, oringoly from NJ moved to SC for weather am very outgoing and frenidly. started Chemo treatment 2 months ago went thrugh 5 weeks of radition, looking to get an idea on what the future may hold for the time left, learning alot about myself Really enjoying Family & Frends. Now trying to set up cairty for cancer patients New Goal. Another new one Helping people through my experances in life found I can give Hope TO drug addict's & drunks try and help anyone!
I am Bobdum's wife this profile is his in his words and that I will leave alone self employed married 4 grow children 6 grand childern liked to travel just found out about 2 brain toumors 1 on or very near the brain stem, also found Pancris tumor. Survied lung cancer with left lung completly removed 4 years ago did chemo, oringoly from NJ moved to SC for weather am very outgoing and frenidly. started Chemo treatment 2 months ago went thrugh 5 weeks of radition, looking to get an idea on what the
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Interests
liked to travel, garden, build things, fast cars & bikes family & friends
liked to travel, garden, build things, fast cars & bikes family & friends
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New Job
August 22, 2009 7:49pm
Hey Ya'll well I made it through my 1st week at the nursing home I really think that Bobby knew there were people out there that needed …
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Journal Entry for August 14, 2009
August 14, 2009 8:57pm
Hey Baby I miss you so much I wish you were here to see me start my new job. Its' just not the same without you everything that I have done for …
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I got a JOB
August 10, 2009 5:05pm
Hey all yesterday SUCKED it was my birthday and it was way harder then Bobby's was sure surprised me but I guess I was just thinking too much as …
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I passed My State Exam
July 25, 2009 8:29pm
Well I promised my Bobby I would do school as you all know by now and I graduated Yeah!! Well today I took the state test both written and …
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Ray of Sunshine
Hi Mari -- Just saying hello and letting you know that I am thinking of you. Barbara
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Ray of Sunshine
Thanks for thinking about me today, Mari. You are so nice to comment on my pictures. Appreciate that so much.
Big hugs and thanks and love to you, Barbara 
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Thank you for your words. I sure hope that I continue dreaming of him because it is so comforting to see them and realize that they are happy. Although it hurts us it helps to know that they are no longer in pain. Our dreams seem so really that they next morning somehow you are expecting them to be beside you or to walk through that door. It hurts when we realize that they are not coming back but at the same time it makes us understand that they are okey. I hope you have a wonderful weekend. Lots of hugs Linda
Celebration
I did yes on fri or sat cant remember which and have written back but didnt manage to get to the post office so i shall post on monday. thanks xx
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Support Groups
Close Brain / CNS Tumors
Just found out about 2 toumor s on the brain. one in front small 1 cm, one on or near the brain stem 3 cm that one worries me. Had a lung removed 3 years ago and have been doing great with that. Brain part is all new to me so i need to start reshescuing that.Haven't started any treatments yet and don't know what to exp,start rad on wednesday, any suggestions where to go next see a surgen tomorrow,
Treatments
- Radiotherapy Too Soon to Tell
Close Alcoholism
My story is probbley about thr same as yours but I have been Sober 13 years now 1 day at a time Chagne people, places thins People Drinkig buddies GONE don't go near bars or places,there is don't alcohol, don't drink beause you stubed your toe or had abad day/good day go to meetings instead.
Treatments
- 12 Step Program Working / Worked
- Never worked the steps LIVED them they come natural when you are sober long enough
- AA Meetings Working / Worked
- FIND A GOOD SPONSER MINE WAS A REAL SON OF A BITCH but him being hard really helped used to go to meetings drunk he'd make me leave
- Willpower Working / Worked
- Humex Working / Worked
Open Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseMy name is Mari I write on my husbands site bobdum he died Dec 18, 2008 after along fight with cancer he was what made me whole I have 1 son 3 step daughters and 6 grands 4 dogs
Treatments
- Crying Not Working
- doesn't really help but happens every night anyway
- Keeping Busy Too Soon to Tell
- seems to help in the day nights are still real hard
- Pets Somewhat Helpful
- my oldest female is as upset as me 2 males are pretty good littlest female is a narcassitic brat
- Prayer Considering
- Remembering Too Soon to Tell
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- it was easier when my son & his partner were here
- Support Groups Considering
- just joined this one but the hugs I have gotten mean alot to me
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- Have good friends who call and visit works for the moment
- Time Too Soon to Tell
Open Widows & Widowers
I lost my very best friend & husband of 17 years on 12/18/08
Open Family & Friends of Cancer Patients
my husband Bob died 12/18/08 of cancer
Open Cerebral Palsy
I am a new CNA and have a new client starting Sunday who has CP
