SophisticatedLady

Open Infidelity

My high school sweetheart has cheated on me so many times that I've lost count.We now have a 4 m/o daugther and he's really emphasizing having a family & getting married. However I recently discovered he has another phone behind my back. I read all the conversations he had with these other females. It has been going on all the while I was pregnant. My heart broke when I found that phone. I want my family, but I know that he has a HUGE problem with infidelity. He doesn't even know why he cheats.

Treatments

Couples Counseling Considering

I'm a SWK and counseling major myself, wanting to eventually do marriage &family counseling. I just don't think that I can effectively help others with their relationships, if I can't even function in my own.

Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell

I have forgiven, but I certainly won't forget. I can't really heal because keeps getting caught doing something else before I can get over the first offense.

Leave Considering

I don't want my daughter to grow up thinking that it's okay to be with someone who does these things.

Open College Stress

THIS IS MY SENIOR YEAR!!! Pray for me!

Open Diets & Weight Maintenance

Just found out that I'm overweight. The birth control shot has caused me to gain more weight than I did while I was pregnant. I must now lose about 25 lbs to get back to pre-preg weight. I noticed that I had gotten a lil bit more "thicker" (in the hips and behind) but now I know I'm just plain fat. I'm not at a healthy weight for my height.

Treatments

Counting Calories Working / Worked

Eating Healthier Foods Working / Worked

Eat Less Working / Worked

Physical Exercise Working / Worked

Open Post Partum Depression