Im' back
May 13, 2009 6:25pm
If your curious about whats the haps with me, here it is I am in therapy a new couceslor with a different approach. The wife and I are …
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10 %
Current Weight (Lbs)
211
obessedallover
5:53pm, May 13, 2009
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About Me
obessedallover
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About Me
I'm a loving father of one and a struggling husband to my dear beautiful wife. Love and family hold so much importance to me. I love music, reading and outdoor anything. I'm carrying some anger and pessimism around like a bad habit and can't seem to shake the doom n' gloom mentality. In contrast I love to laugh and just get stupid w/ friends only it doesn't happen that often.
I'm a loving father of one and a struggling husband to my dear beautiful wife. Love and family hold so much importance to me. I love music, reading and outdoor anything. I'm carrying some anger and pessimism around like a bad habit and can't seem to shake the doom n' gloom mentality. In contrast I love to laugh and just get stupid w/ friends only it doesn't happen that often.
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Interests
Being competive in sportlike action. Not an athelete but a inner desire to be good all games. Rapping and drawing, doing this together such a simple pure pleasure for me.
Being competive in sportlike action. Not an athelete but a inner desire to be good all games. Rapping
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bad cold + weight loss
February 4, 2009 12:13pm
kinda not fair but I'll take it. maybe its all the extra water ive been drinking cuz I haven't really been strict with calorie intake. …
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things been good
February 4, 2009 12:10pm
dare i say things are going well. some really great visits and time spend with the wife. she's showing affecting and love like she …
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hey, I am doing pretty good overall :).. baby is doing fine and has kept me nauseated but fine...I find out in 4 weeks what I am having.. can hardly wait!!!
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hey!! how are things going for you? how is the W??? things getting progressively better? I hope so!
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thanks! how are you doing? things getting any better with the wife?
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hey, how are you? been thinking about you and hope things have improved with the wife! things are good here... I just found out last week I am pregnant, I am excited.. have a long way to go but could not be happier!
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Rainbow
hey, checkin in on you.. was nuts last with with family in town etc.. got your email.. I'll email ya back tomm. when little one is in school:)
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Support Groups
Close Sex / Pornography Addiction
I have learned that pornography is not harmless fun. Although it can bring much pleasure and excitement it also can have very damaging consequences. What was at one time something viewed to spice up our sex life became a HUGE source of anger, hurt and betrayal. Took me far to long to realize I really did have a problem and now I'm trying to relearn what healthy intimacy feels like.
Close Crohn's Disease & Ulcerative Colitis
My wife was dianosed soon after the birth of our son about 3 years ago. I am the struggling husband trying to be as supportive as possible. She has had a surgery and a lot of time living with flare ups. Over the last three years.
Open Depression
I now realize I have suffered from depression for probably 15 years. Not ever severe, but always a sense of failure and lonilness that never fully subsides. This condition has lead me to seek solace in Pornography which I now suffer a terrible addiction with.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Definatly helping overall awareness of myself and my bahaviors
- Wellbutrin Working / Worked
- Yes i definatly felt a difference. For a period i was instructed to stop taking and really noticed the difference on the negative side.
- Writing Somewhat Helpful
Open Financial Challenges
Rock bottom was hit and I'm now regaining control over this portion of my life. Living separately from w has given my he power and full responisiblity to manage my income vs cost of living in a way that I haven;t in years. Still may facing possible bankuprtcy filing.
Treatments
- Budgeting Working / Worked
- Yes, quicken has shown me how money has been spent over the last year and it was sickening.
- Filing for Bankruptcy Considering
Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)
3+ yr old boy absolute bundle of energy. Covers the spectrum of making me laugh out loud to me wanting to pull out my hair... He is having some troubles, the w and I have been living together but separate for about a year now. Generally good for each of us but when all three of us are together his behavior is terrible!
Treatments
- 1-2-3 Magic Somewhat Helpful
- Depends on the situation.
- Child Time-out Somewhat Helpful
- Less helpful now that in the past.
Open Breakups & Divorce
Living together but separately for over an year. This period is about to end as we actually move out into separate homes. We will be sharing responsibilty of our 3 yr old as evenly as possible.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- W not ready for couples. We each see are own
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Is working greatly for me. The hope has been restored in myself for a possible happy future no matter the outcome.
- Support Groups Too Soon to Tell
- For this subject my support group is small
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- We've been talking better lately, the closer we get to "Separating".
Open Prescription Drug Abuse
my wife just confided in me last night she is addicted to vicoden
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