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viking63 
5:12am, February 15, 2009
I am having a problem with my wifes menopause. This is gonna sound really sexist, but it is a problem that is real for both of us.
This is both our 2nd marriage and we share 60% custudy with my x of my 15yr old daughter.
My wife has been going through the change for about a year and a half. She is on hormone replacement, suppliments of many different vitiamns, and some other herbal medicines. But, through all of this our sex life has died. It was great, but has come to a screaching halt.
I am trying to be patient.. but have noticed me having more behavioral changes. Want to stay out with friends, and drinking. I have become more irritable at times for no aparent reason.
I don't know what I want anymore, ... the affection I used to get from my wife isn't there. She tells me she loves me... but that is it....
I buy her flowers, we are in the process of remodeling the house the way she wants it, ...
I just feel overwhelmed.... I miss my friend. 
I Feel flat....
