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  OCMACH2 (03/15/09)

  A gold star for being such a trooper as regards you wifes problems I know its hard for you, but you are doing the best you can, I know that things will get better for you both. Hugs for you Anne
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  Marcel49 (03/01/09)

  I have recently devorced from my wife of 22 years, to understand why let me starty here, first when she came home one day and asked my daughter about eratic periods in a very low voice,i emediatly checked, out of concern, what it could be, when i googled those words i was hit with thousands of sites on Pre Meno, i researched until i knew more than the average person could ever know, when i told my wife of the possibility of this change, she had all the symptons, including haert pallapatations, inchy fingers,sleepless nights, depression,mood swings, and on and on, she dinied it was that, at this point in our relationship we were having intimet relations about 3 times a year,she was sleeping on the couch, and she would never touch or go near me,she never went to see a doctor or even see the sites that i recomended on the net, shes 44, when i seen this i understood what the hell went wrong with a perfect relationship,Premenopause! ther was one thing i could not find after searching and searching for months,a support group for spouses, ther was nothing at all except this site, in wich i corrisponded with some other lost husbands, they all went through what i did,and some are in the same position as me, seperated but still in love!!!!
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  ilovemyford (02/24/09)
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  Moab (02/24/09)

  Hey, I forgot to tell you, we were just out in L.A. for our daughers wedding, in the Laguna Beach area. Where is Fresno, in relation to L.A.??
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  Moab (02/24/09)

  Of course, men belong to this group!! Anybody that needs and wants to give support belong to this group!! Life is too hard without friends!hugs and peace
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  ilovemyford (02/22/09)

  my husband is also going through it.as well am I!
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  Moab (02/22/09)

  Thank you, how are you??
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  inaffittoooften (02/15/09)

  You need to reread my part of the thread. I never insinuated drunk or womanizer, I just suggested what your wife "might" be feeling, and gave you some ideas. I have managed a successful 19 year marriage, and at 37 years old, that is quite an accomplishment. I am not dealing with any old issues here, I am positive, and when I have been wringed in the past, time did heal those wounds, and I have a lot of good experiences to share with ithers, because I have "been there done that", and made it through to the other side with a wonderful marriage. There are times when I am grouchy from pain, but only once have I taken it out on anyone on these boards, and it had nothing to do with you. Please look into that CBT that I mentioned, it could really change your life.
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  helloagain1 (11/18/08)

  Hello, Just dropping by to say hello. Glad to see things are going better. Take care and stay positive! Hugs, Maryann :)
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  katetee (11/10/08)

  It's not easy feeling alone when you're with someone....that is the worst form of loneliness. I too feel on the outside but am too tired anymore to fight to get back inside. Two years of trying is exhausting and some days I just want to give up.... But then I see I am not alone and that others, such as yourself, are trying to deal with similar issues. Support and understanding and NOT judging are what helps us get through one day to the next. If ever you need to talk or just need a shoulder to lean on, you know where to find me. Take care......Kate

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