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  • About Me

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    viking63

    Male, 46
    Fresno, CA, USA
    Member since February 22, 2008

    • About Me

      Wife is 11 years older than me and is going through the change. Want to help but don't have a lot of support. Need someone to talk to about it.

      Wife is 11 years older than me and is going through the change. Want to help but don't have a lot of support. Need someone to talk to about it.

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    • Did i tell you about

      Mood March 12, 2008 6:28pm

      I work out of town every day and commute.  it is about 45 min of driving and is really good to get some time while on the road to unwind from a …

    • Journal Entry for February 24, 2008

      Mood February 24, 2008 11:11am

      yesterday was a good lazy saturday. I can honestly say I did nothing.  Played with the dog, lunch, nap, watched tv, nap, dinner, held wifes had …
    • Journal Entry for February 23, 2008

      Mood February 23, 2008 7:10am

      4am.  I am not sure what to feel anymore. is it enough.... went to dr yesterday and perscribed paxil for depression. now I am second guessing if …
    • Journal Entry for February 22, 2008

      Mood February 22, 2008 11:46am

      I am having a problem with my wifes menopause.  This is gonna sound really sexist, but it is a problem that is real for both of us.

      This is both …

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    • Gold Star

      From OCMACH2 March 15

      A gold star for being such a trooper as regards you wifes problems I know its hard for you, but you are doing the best you can, I know that things will get better for you both. Hugs for you Anne

    • I’m With You

      From Marcel49 March 1

      I have recently devorced from my wife of 22 years, to understand why let me starty here, first when she came home one day and asked my daughter about eratic periods in a very low voice,i emediatly checked, out of concern, what it could be, when i googled those words i was hit with thousands of sites on Pre Meno, i researched until i knew more than the average person could ever know, when i told my wife of the possibility of this change, she had all the symptons, including haert pallapatations, inchy fingers,sleepless nights, depression,mood swings, and on and on, she dinied it was that, at this point in our relationship we were having intimet relations about 3 times a year,she was sleeping on the couch, and she would never touch or go near me,she never went to see a doctor or even see the sites that i recomended on the net, shes 44, when i seen this i understood what the hell went wrong with a perfect relationship,Premenopause! ther was one thing i could not find after searching and searching for months,a support group for spouses, ther was nothing at all except this site, in wich i corrisponded with some other lost husbands, they all went through what i did,and some are in the same position as me, seperated but still in love!!!!

    • Ray of Sunshine

      From ilovemyford February 24

    • Moment of Peace

      From Moab February 24

      Hey, I forgot to tell you, we were just out in L.A. for our daughers wedding, in the Laguna Beach area. Where is Fresno, in relation to L.A.??

    • Hug

      From Moab February 24

      Of course, men belong to this group!! Anybody that needs and wants to give support belong to this group!! Life is too hard without friends!hugs and peace

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    • Close Menopause

      I am here to find answeres to help my wife and friend. We have had a great sex life till this happened 1.5 years ago. She is not interested at all. What can I do?

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