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About Me
rosebud11
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About Me
Mother of three, divorced from abusive relationship that didn't stop the abuse. Passionate about children, fish out of water being single again, wondering how I lost all those years, cancer survivor, swimming against the tide
Mother of three, divorced from abusive relationship that didn't stop the abuse. Passionate about children, fish out of water being single again, wondering how I lost all those years, cancer survivor, swimming against the tide
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Interests
The gym, reading, writing, travel, almost anywhere, music
The gym, reading, writing, travel, almost anywhere, music
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Prayer
Please pray for me. I have my 1st meeting with my lawyer for $200. My journey thru hell begins. But my 75 yr old dad is traveling 3 hrs just to go with me. Now that is love & support.
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just stopped by quickly to give you a hug and let you know I think of you and always wish you and your family well!
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Support Groups
Close Breast Cancer
Stage: IIB (T2 N1)I had DCIS which was actually stage 2 when the biopsy came back. Chemo, radiation, all of it. But I'm 5 years out now.
Treatments
- Adriamycin Working / Worked
- hair loss, weight gain. Yup, it worked
- Chemotherapy Working / Worked
- I did a study at Dana Farber for stage 3 even though I'm stage 2 because I didn't want to do it again. I think it worked
- Surgery Working / Worked
- Double Mastectomy and diep flap
- Taxotere Working / Worked
- Laughter Somewhat Helpful
- Hello Las Vegas- wigs, tattoos and implants
Close Physical & Emotional Abuse
15 year marriage with 3 children. The guy does everything he can get away with, still...
Treatments
- Abuse Counseling Working / Worked
- couldn't have continued living and breathing without it
- Divorce Working / Worked
- wish I had left him sooner
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Forgive yourself for taking it over and over again. I know better, but he still doesn't.
- Group Therapy Working / Worked
- I joined a controlling partners group and it moved me along
- Leave Working / Worked
- I was always leaving because he wouldn't
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Skip marriage counseling and get your own
- Talking Working / Worked
- Just don't talk with him because it gets twisted
- Laughter Somewhat Helpful
- Dark humor
Open Breakups & Divorce
Divorced after 15 yrs of marriage, 3 children, fish out of water. I tried and tried to please him, through abuse, an affair, my cancer and his antics. I didn't want to divorce, but had to.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Never worked
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- What else can you do? I forgive myself mostly or I'll get bitter
- Leave Working / Worked
- Yes, but I should have done it sooner
- Music Working / Worked
- Clears my head
- Pets Working / Worked
- I'm so happy that I got a dog. My ex wouldn't let me. Now, that's another good reason for divorce
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Yes, I was basically in an intervention by counseling in order for me to leave him
Open Child Support & Custody
I am divorced with three children and through the di.vorce, my ex took custody. We're not done, obviously because courts go on and on. I've done everything asked of me, and still, he keeps the children from me
Open Parenting 'Tweens (9-12)
I have 3 girls; 9, 14 and 16, all wonderful children. Just keeping on top of their issues here.
Treatments
Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)
Two of my three daughters are just turning 14 and 16! The other one is nine.
Treatments
- Patience Working / Worked
Open Career Changes
I had a big career in medicl sales, then stopped working for three children who are 9,14 and 16. I got divorced 2 years ago and can't seem to fit in at any particular workplace. Feel like a dinosaur!
Open Life After Divorce
I've been divorced for three years now. Married for 15 with three daughters 16, 14 and 9. The marriage was horrendous, with physical, emotional and financial abuse. The latter two continue in various ways
Open Motherless Children
I lost my mother when I was 28. It was devastating to me and I miss her every day. I married a man who I thought was kind and gentle, only to find him abusive and controlling. After 15 years, I divorced him, surviving cancer and all that devastation, I divorced, and have been in a custody battle with him for three years.
