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pam71 (07/13/09)
I just want to give you a hug.
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Laura20 (06/08/09)
Thank you. You are a sweetheart! hugs Laura
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swrounds (06/08/09)
The last line should have said YOU HAVEN'T GONE THIS FAR TO STOP NOW. Sorry for my silly mistake.
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swrounds (06/08/09)
You ARE strong. And you will get the help that you need and deserve. As your "Big Brother" I will make sure of that. Have faith in yourself (and some faith in me) and we'll get through this. You have gotten this far to stop now.
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tracip (03/30/09)
hello, Hope your doing well. Janette (elainebr) will be in contact with you real soon in regards to your grief mentor. She is a very nice lady. I am still here if you want to chat. Traci
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Beckyn1 (06/26/08)
It's hard to get away from an abuser, but you can do it. I was with a man who beat me, a lot, and I called my mother for help.. she said, " you got yourself into the mess, you get yourself out" it took me three years to get away from the bastered.. but now I've been away from him for over ten years, at the time I didn't think I would ever get over it, but it taught me exactly what I did not want to be, and I did get over it.
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CathyBlessedGranny (06/13/08)
Thanks for the info. I am at work but I went alooked at the link you sent and it looks very interesting. Do you use it? How long? Thanks for taking time to send the info my way. Good luck & God bless Cathy
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Beckyn1 (04/09/08)
Love is in the air! Don't be afraid to be you!
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rosem1111 (04/03/08)
Thanks very much. I know I can get things wrong but I don't think we should be crucified for our mistakes, especially on DS where we come for support. I may leave DS as now it seems like another abusive place to me. I've even got a couple of messages (plus, thank God, some positive, encouraging and helpful ones) saying I deserved the abuse I got on DS. That was abuse and I could have reported them for it but I didn't as I feel sorry for them. But really there is NO excuse for abuse and I am sorry if I have done it myself inadvertently. Mistakes are to be learned from; not to be used to "beat us up" with. I hope things are going better for you now. Things were really bad for you before.
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RubyMcC (04/03/08)
Thank you for the hugs, and requesting to be my friend. I am pleased that you are selling your house to finalize the separation. It takes time to heal from a toxic relationship. Even though it has been four months since my ex left I still feel the lingering emotions of anger, and hurt that he will not acknowledge his negative behavior towards me. Sometimes when I think I am no longer angry, I can see that I still have not truly forgiven him yet. I do not want to grow into a bitter woman. You are welcome to join the physical & emotional abuse survivors group. Some of the articles there may help you heal from your past relationships as well as stop the cycle completely. You can find the group on my groups list from my profile. We are also discussing the idea of doing monthly "art therapy" projects to help us focus on the various aspects of toxic relationships. *hugs* ~Ruby
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