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svdbylove
Female, 39, IL
"WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE,YOU DON'T GIVE UP!"
12:17pm, June 22, 2009

  • About Me

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    svdbylove

    Female, 39
    IL, USA
    Member since January 28, 2008

    • About Me

      Love my family soo very much, and want us to stay together as a family always. WIFE, & Mother of 4 young ones still at home. My Husband & I celebrating 18 yrs together. There is always HOPE that everything can work out. I Love to Laugh.. I tend to bond w/ those who do it alot.. I have experienced & survived alot in my life and have come here to find strength & also share my own..

      Love my family soo very much, and want us to stay together as a family always. WIFE, & Mother of 4 young ones still at home. My Husband & I celebrating 18 yrs together. There is always HOPE that everything can work out. I Love to Laugh.. I tend to bond w/ those who do it alot.. I have experienced & survived alot in my life and have come here to find strength & also share my own..

    • Interests

      LOL as much as possible... Music.. Positivity.. Light A Candle.. www.gratefulness.org Something to think about.. "The weak can never forgive... Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

      LOL as much as possible... Music.. Positivity.. Light A Candle.. www.gratefulness.org Something to think

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    • Journal Entry for July 15, 2009

      Mood July 15, 2009 1:55am

      Husband called me today, to say he's coming home.. says i will need to go back to work, as our brother in law cannot afford to pay him... …

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  • Goals

    Unload Moms stuff...

    Progress

    10 %

    Goal End Date is Dec 31, 08 312 days ago.
    Listening

    100%

    Goal Completed on Jun 18, 08

  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      My marriage went through a terrible nightmare.. we almost lost eachother forever, and through lots of love, understanding, counseling & support from family, our marriage has been saved.. thus, my name.. svdbylove :-)

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Working / Worked
      Very Helpful
      Family Therapy Working / Worked
      Therapy is very helpful in working out your marriage issues, and clear up many misunderstanding.
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      Takes time.. Have to give full forgiveness for things to really turn around..
      Leave Not Working
      Making a rash decision to leave, could cost you dearly. Please dont make rash decisions during depression & therapy.
      Love Working / Worked
      Lots of deep love for eachother saved us both
      Music Working / Worked
      Music can be very soothing
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      You must work out your issues, and yourself, in order to have healthy relationships
      Reading Working / Worked
      5 love language by Gary Chapman.. Excellent read!!!
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Our close family helped us during our darkest moments.. some of our long time friends too.. When in your darkest hours, please be careful in who you pick as your 'friend' , as they could talk you into a path of destruction, and more misery, and regret for life...
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      This support group helped us both alot.
      Talking Working / Worked
      Communication is key to clearing up misunderstandings.. So happy to clear things up, and make an effort to not assume things that might be incorrect.
      Time Working / Worked
      Some things are just a process, and you cant take a pill for it! Time heals, but the side effects can be excruciating.

    • Close Infidelity

      05' My marriage spun into a frenzzy of stress... We opened our beautiful marriage to some risque situatiions.. stepped out into the .. Twilight Zone... " Where to go now that we've gone too far".. Spending every second rebuilding our beautiful marriage.. When you love somone.. you don't give up..

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Working / Worked
      Counseling helps you work out your own issues, and as a couple it helps to clear up misunderstandings
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      Working.. I forgave him, however find it extremely difficult to forgive myself... as I hold myself accountable for the near destruction of my family. I felt completely lost for about 3wks... Im so very ashamed... Upon reflection, I can hardly believe Im writing this about myself, or our beautiful marriage... We have always had something very special between us, and always conquered the worst of the worst.. I truely thought we were both stronger.
      Reading Working / Worked
      5 love languages by gary chapman excellent read.. excellent help

    • Open Depression Supporters

      The last several years has been very stressful & we experienced many losses.. and its taken it toll on us both. So hard to see your dearest in soo much pain.

      Treatments

      Crying Working / Worked
      We cry & hold eachother & helps us both.
      Music Working / Worked
      Softer soothing music helps
      Patience Working / Worked
      All you can really do, is have patience & do what you can to make life a little easier for them, if w/in your power
      Talking Working / Worked
      Having compassion, understanding, and really listening seems to be very helpful.

    • Open Rape

      Raped by two jerks at a very young age.. One was a trusted neighbor.. both said they would bury me alive.. i lived in fear of them both for many years. my fav uncle tried & failed..

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Do it~
      Talking Too Soon to Tell
      Not sure it was helpful.

    • Open Healthy Relationships

      I have a beautiful marriage It means everything to me to keep it healthy..

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Working / Worked
      Patience Working / Worked
      Talking Working / Worked

    • Open Seasonal Affective Disorder

      svdbylove hasn’t entered any details for this support group.

    • Open Financial Challenges

      Trying to take care my family

    • Open Parenting Big Kids (5-8)

      svdbylove hasn’t entered any details for this support group.

    • Open Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction

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