Pain
August 24, 2009 3:47pm
I've watched myself come up from the bowels of a painful hell and manage to find some stability. I even managed to find laughter (no …
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Sololena
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About Me
My guiding principle of life: "Blessed are they who expect nothing...they shall not be disappointed." My Favorite quotes: "Hearts will never be practical until they are unbreakable." -from The Wizard of Oz "I do not HAVE a Soul...I AM a Soul" C.S. Lewis
My guiding principle of life: "Blessed are they who expect nothing...they shall not be disappointed." My Favorite quotes: "Hearts will never be practical until they are unbreakable." -from The Wizard of Oz "I do not HAVE a Soul...I AM a Soul" C.S. Lewis
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Great Group of Gals But....
August 13, 2009 1:52am
I feel so fortunate to have found such great forum for support. I can easily admit
I'm very wary around men. And although most of the ladies in …
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A (The?) Break-through
August 10, 2009 4:42am
I think I stumbled across the most painful aspect of my whole experience....a remarkably
surprising thought. I think that the thing that hurts …
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Putting The Peices Together: A Must-Read For Emotional Abuse Victims
August 8, 2009 1:22pm
http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/PsychopathicPersonality.htm
The Psychopathic PersonalityRevised: May 20, 2007
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Journal Entry for August 2, 2009
August 2, 2009 12:56pm
I've sent Ben his package so that I could track it online. There had been 2 notices left, yet the package remained unclaimed; it is due to be …
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High Five
So glad someone else feels the same as i do about not having enough trust yet for a mixed sex group....I was beaten by my ex..and had post traumatic strss disorder from it..So I do reserve the right to not want to open up to guys about it yet...And like you..I don't hate men....absoloutely not....Thanks for the support there! (I wrote on your journal...)....Big hugs!
I’m With You
hey loved your post on feeling the fool your story sounds similiar to mine just get life together and finally feeling strong after a divorce and the therapy i needed to get over it and bang the bastard took it all away from over a yr later just getting on top of things but now too afraid to date ... anyway thanks for the post hugs jd :-)
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Gold Star
hey sololena thank you for clarifying the therapy thing i have been in and around therapist for a long time and what you describe is correct - my reply tended to be rather black and white and i missed explaining the gray which is in the poem where i mention about more questions to my mind more puzzles to solve - yes they help you identify the issue but if you ask a therapist what to do they will not solve such a question - usually you will questioned back in a round about way to find your own solutions and grow by the therapist being a guide - they dont hold the answers for you but guide you to find the strength and knowledge to make and choice the decisions which are best for each individual - the poem is for a cpl of pdocs i know whom know i usnderstand the process but it took 8 yrs for me to realize they were giving me the skills to answer my own questions and build my self esteem and internal being hugs jd :-)
I’m With You
Hi sweetie, thank you for your support. I have a friend who has what your son has and he is really cool. He is one of the top world scabble players. These people are very special. He has a great personality. How are you?
Flower
Happy Tuesday! Here's some pretty flowers for my new friend:)
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