Wednesday, February 27, 2008
When James died the woman I was for forty-one years died with him. I am a 63 year old infant, one struggling to learn how to live in this dark, …
I am recently widowed after 41 years of marriage. I am past president of the memphis humane society and taught creative writing for the univ. of memphis.
I am recently widowed after 41 years of marriage. I am past president of the memphis humane society and taught creative writing for the univ. of memphis.
When James died the woman I was for forty-one years died with him. I am a 63 year old infant, one struggling to learn how to live in this dark, …
I think it's the finality that is the one left behind's biggest problem. How can we stand never seeing our mate again--at least in this …
Well, it's official--I've enrolled in dealer school. I've been saying, "Shut up and deal." all day. Actually …
My biggest fear is having years of being alone. My family is very long lived and I have no desire to ever be dependent on anyone, or have to go …
Today would have been James' 64th birthday. It's the first time in 42 years we didn't celebrate it together. Happy birthday, …
Thinking about you and hoping that you are doing OK...Just wanted to send you a Hug to maybe brigthen up your day...Stella
How are you doing?????? Thinking of you and hoping you're okay. Hugs!
Hey Judy! Hope all is well with you. Wanted to wish you a great weekend! Lyn
I was thinking of you, too. I think you should read the book I'm reading - it's written by a writing professor (instead of a shrink thank God!) - and I think it would speak to you as it has to me. She knows her craft, and her treatment of the grief journey has a clarity and tenderness I think you would appreciate. It's "Seven Choices - Finding Daylight After Loss Shatters Your World" by Elizabeth Harper Neeld, Ph.D. I'm well over 100 pages into it - all the other grief books I tried just couldn't hold my attention - too much psychobabble or unrealism - and I couldn't relate to them. This one is different, and as a writer and former professor, I think you would appreciate it on many levels. Just a thought.... We're under a tornado watch today - and I'm trying not to get stressed over it. I hate them.... I know you don't much about Knoxville, how about Chattanooga? See, my searches keep getting closer to where you are! Still looking for answers to so many questions it seems. Love and Hugs!
thank you. glad I found you again. need lots of help joanie
My heart is broken.