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mother2bebubbins
Female, 20, Brisbane, AUS
"waiting for lily to wake"
9:56pm, July 15, 2009
Wednesday, February 27, 2008 Mood
Wednesday, February 27, 2008 | A Positive story
ok so i feel so bad for what i wrote the other night i was just goingt through a really hard time and missing my family dosnt help. my mom came down for the weekend and it was the best thing that could have happened to me. i missed her so much and it was really hard to say goodbye when she went home but it was a really good time for me. jonathan and i have improved 100%. he has been so supportive and he has even sorted out our financial issues. we are now getting married on the 28th March as arranged by him. i am so happy and exited, the baby wasnt a mistake, ever (i dont know where some people got that idea from cus we knew we were getting pregnant and we were ready for it we have just gone througb a very rough patch getting back on our feet) and im so happy that we are going to meet her in 13 weeks. any way feeling very sick atm and cant take anything to get rid of it, just a relly bad cold but aside from that im happy as larry. bye xoxo 
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  1. apentobear

    Are you sure that getting married is a good idea? You aren't doing it just to make yourselves happy, are you? Because, as I know from my parents, that never works. Just... be careful is my only advice.


    apentobear

  2. mother2bebubbins

    no offence i am very happy, being pregnant living with your partner who works full time in the army and 2000kms away from home and all of the people i care for (aside from him) is very hard work, on top of that i have had numerouse health problems that make me feel like crap all oof the time and as you could imagine this is all very stressfull, this was the reason for my journal entry the other day. there are more good times than bad with him and i love him to death. i am very happy and we love each other more than anything in this world, we have our ups and downs as any other normal family does and we are having a child together i can see 1 single reason why we shouldnt get married and as for getting married to make ourselves happy what other reason is there????? . i come on this website to vent and speak to people for support (positive support). i would prefer it if opinions like this were kept to yourselves. i dont want to sound rude but and i am not angry but if i wanted opinions about weather i should get married or not i would have posted a topic. my happy situation has now been turned negative and that upsets me. thanks for taking the time to read it tho.


    mother2bebubbins

  3. apentobear

    I never intended to turn your happy situation "into a negative", I just wanted to know if you were positive about what you were doing is all. Also, what I meant about the getting married just to make yourselves happy, is that, marriage seldom ALWAYS keeps people happy. In fact, it's been scientically proven, that the first year in marriage things are great, then go downhill from there. I didn't want to upset you,like I said in my DS, that can sometimes happen, but I hardly ever INTEND for it to happen. My apologies.


    apentobear

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