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BobSolley 
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About Me
BobSolley
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About Me
I am back from Germany now. I am 53 yo. I am starting over after a breakup. I'm seeking healthy relationships in my life and want to do all I can to take care of myself emotionally. Would love to make some good friends here. I feel lonely sometimes, but am starting therapy next week. So things are looking up.
I am back from Germany now. I am 53 yo. I am starting over after a breakup. I'm seeking healthy relationships in my life and want to do all I can to take care of myself emotionally. Would love to make some good friends here. I feel lonely sometimes, but am starting therapy next week. So things are looking up.
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Interests
animal spirituality friendship personal growth compassion
animal spirituality friendship personal growth compassion
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Journal
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Hugbook
Chicken Soup
Haven't heard from you in a long while,
hope all is well with you, my friend.
hugs,
Tina-
Rainbow
Hi Bob, how are you, I haven't
heard from you in awhile, hope
all is well. 
Hug
Hope you are doing ok!!
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Hug
Hugs!! Haven't heard from you in awhile..hope all is well.
Ray of Sunshine
Hey, stranger! Long time no see! I hope you are doing well and good things are happening in your life. I wrote a journal entry kind of updating where I've been the last few months. Sending you some sunshine to brighten your day.
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Support Groups
Close Healthy Relationships
Back from Germany. Going to anger mgt and 12 Step groups. Am doing much better, but still a long way to go.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Talking Working / Worked
- Talking to counselor has helped some.
- Writing Working / Worked
- This helps some.
Close Healthy Sex
I wonder if I'm addicted to sex and/or relationships. It would be nice to be able to have a healthy sexual relationship, but I'm not sure what that means. I'm in the midst of a breakup, but don't want to return to unhealthy sex behaviors of the past.
Treatments
- Patience Working / Worked
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Breakups & Divorce
I'm breaking up with my girlfriend. I'm 53 years old and have been with her for 2 years. Its very hard, but I know its the right thing to do.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Financial Challenges
Treatments
- Cut Up Credit Cards Working / Worked
- Filing for Bankruptcy Somewhat Helpful
Open Brain Injury
I had a TBI when I was 5 years old. My parent never discussed it with me, so I never realized anything was wrong. Now I'm 53 years old. I had some neuro testing a few years ago which revealed memory deficits, impulsivity, and emotional issues. So all my life, I've never really realized I had any of these issues related to TBI. So I feel like I was really let down as I was growing up. Now I have to deal with it.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Anger Management
I really have anger issues, especially when I get into a relationship. I know I'm the one responsible for my feelings, including anger. No one else is responsible but me. I need to learn how to deal with these feelings that come upon me so suddenly.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Sex / Pornography Addiction
I'm currently in recovery. I've recently started back in going to SAA meetings. I'm reaching out for support.
Treatments
- Group Therapy Working / Worked
- Great for support. You cannot recover alone. You have to work the program every day. There are no days off in recovery.
- Running Working / Worked
- Great stress reliever.
Open Families & Friends Affected By Suicide
Have friends who are survivors and am interested in making people more aware of affects of suicide on those left behind.
