ChristinaCat85's Journal

lately i'm having this serious issue with having like no tolerance at all for bullshit. I've been thinking it's probably pms, and alot of it probably is, but it's getting so bad that i'm having to keep myself from talking to certain people because i know i'm 2 seconds from flipping out and calling them on their shit. It's really getting on my nerves.

I mean, normally, when someone is being totally irrational or taking an issue and blowing it completely out of proportion, or thinking that something is a big issue when it really isnt and they're just so bored and desperate for attention that they make it out to be, i do get rather agitated but not to the point of wanting to just flat out be like...'you do realize you're a fucking idiot and you need to remove your head from your ass before walking around with the rest of the human race, right?'  I'm not usually mean enough to really say something like that to someone but the past few days, i've definitely been to that point.

Now, please know that when I'm having these feelings about someone it's not because I think i'm better than them or anything. That's definitely not what it is..but i am SO tired of people constantly bitching and complaining about things that are not a big deal. Life can get SO much worse than the shit i see people complaining about.

Its like, if a LOT of people who have 'problems' would really just evaluate everything in their lives and analyze the crap out of all of it, they'd probably figure out that most of their 'oh so horrible, woe is me' issues are easily solvable. But instead, people tend to milk it for all its worth to get attention.

uggh. its like GRRR lol

i'm venting big time.

this is what i think...and people should seriously try to remember these things more often.

I know its hard but trying is something that few people ever bother doing and should look into it.

1. regret is a very, very, evil thing. look at the dumb things youve done or said as  learning experiences. regret is truly toxic

2. dont live in the past. we can't get it back, we cant change it. Look to the future but remember the past so you wont make the same mistakes over and over.

3. Looks are NOT everything. Yes, physical attraction is important because we are human but i'd rather have someone who's got an amazing personality and isn't that great looking instead of an asshole who's gorgeous. What's inside tends to make the outside beautiful in my experience.

4. Don't run from love because of fear. life is far too short...doing that will take you to number 1 and that would suck.

5. Tomorrow is a new day. We never know what life could bring so don't give up on hope. Ever. There are people who have it far far worse than most of us and still have hope.

6. If you're young, please remember that you still have A LOT to learn. Most younger people think they've got it aaaall figured out. I know I did. Which, yes, i'm still young but you know what I mean. Remember that you do not know everything. You can be wise from your experiences but maturity is truly something that comes with age. I'm nothing of who I was when I was 18.Trust me, one day you'll look back and wonder why you were being so emotional over something and think you were a doofus for it. Oh and you'll never know everything lol I know I wont

7. Stalking is not a good way to get someone to love you...no no.

and yeah i'm gonna shut up now because i think i probably sound like i think i know everything lol i really dont think that. I promise you. but these are just a few things that i was thinking about and wanted to rant and ramble on about.