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AlliA (9:17 pm)
Just wanted to send you a hug.. I read ur journal and am so sorry that u r feeling so down. It's hard to keep positive when all u keep getting r negatives...but try to keep hope. It will happen for you! I'm going to the Dr. next Thursday. If I find any information that can help u I will let u know. U r in my thoughts and I wish happiness ur way!
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febgirl (4:54 pm)
I am glad I could help! Hang in there, its going to be alright, I promise. Ha, you are right, DH does keep me very secretive, lol. It's like now that we are "friends" I feel like its real instead of just cyberspace and then I feel like its going against DH by telling you things like doing the IUI, etc. Its crazy!
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Leabug (1:49 pm)
Sending you a BIG hug, so sorry for this BFN. Thinking of you.
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kaja2008 (1:31 pm)
I am so sorry for the BFN. Hopelessness is the only natural feeling after so many. But realistically there is always hope. Let yourself grieve now but don't despair. You will see that things will turn around. It may just be that your body is trying to balance itself and it has lots of demands on it: past m/c to get over, lots of meds now, your emotions ... You got pg twice and you will again, but like all good things in life it cannot be hurried. I remember for example times when I was very disappointed in love and dying to meet someone that would be a good bf. And it just wouldn't happen when I wanted, it happened at its own time, no matter how much I tried to go out and meet people and be open-minded. I met my DH when I least expected and we clicked so perfectly that we never had a crisis in 10 years of being together, 7 of them spent in a long-distance relationship. So I'd say keep on trying, talk to your RE - it's good that he wants to change the treatment. But above all try to say "This child is worth waiting for and I will just persevere and wait and pray until it wants to come to me" rather than "I want the child now". It will lessen the pressure on you and it will make you feel better. Sending lots and lots of hugs your way!
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4EVERinLOVE (1:24 pm)
Well, I'll be there in spirit, have some wine for me.
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lyssie2 (12:46 pm)
Oh hun, I am so sorry! I wish this were different for us. I really do. I don't know what to say except we will somehow make it through this. we have to. I wish it were somehow getting easier though. Lots of hugs to you and I wish you could join me in a glass of wine tonight! Come on over!!!
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4EVERinLOVE (12:04 pm)
I'm so sorry. I wish I could be there to support you. Go to the bar and help you drown your sorrows, but more importantly give you hope that it WILL happen. I know you may not feel hopeful today but in a few days you will. Just know I'm thinking about you and I'm always here.
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erin0718 (11:23 am)
i am so sorry...big hugs to u today!
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4EVERinLOVE (11:11 am)
My heart is breaking. I just saw your status. I'm so sorry. You going to be able to go home soon?
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lyssie2 (10:54 am)
Sorry about the lack of sleep hun, I hope that the rain ceases soon. Here we've been getting about an inch of snow a day, so it's been pretty slow and steady, nothing like over the holiday. It's a nice covering though. we did get some of the freezing rain here, but that was quickly replaced with the white stuff. How are you? I hope that you're doing ok. Let me know if there's anything I can do. RE is making me do one more beta today, although I asked to skip it bcuz last week was 4, but they make you go until 2 here. So I'm going but not happy about that. Plus I'm sick so I really didn't want to leave the couch today, oh well. I hope that you and dh are still ok from the weekend. My thoughts are with you and I hope that's not another reasone you're losing sleep! HUGS!
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